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I was just curious, because i might be dealing with some undercover feminists.
Whether you are or aren't ...some women will criticize men cause they get off on exercising their power over men. I don't read sosuave newsletter e-mail articles much but sometimes I will if bored. I'm glad I did today and found this article:


I'm a self improvement type of guy(I won't BS you I sometimes make excuses like the weight loss with you lol) and noticed sometimes last 1-2 years (especially 6 months or so ) women getting into these debate/arguments with me that makes no sense....yet when I tell the facts they shut up and accept it. It's possible a lot of times they're trying to see how I react and get off in thinking they can control. Sometimes I let it frustrate me and it shows...so I'm glad I read this I kind of 'needed' it
 

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Whether you are or aren't ...some women will criticize men cause they get off on exercising their power over men. I don't read sosuave newsletter e-mail articles much but sometimes I will if bored. I'm glad I did today and found this article:


I'm a self improvement type of guy(I won't BS you I sometimes make excuses like the weight loss with you lol) and noticed sometimes last 1-2 years (especially 6 months or so ) women getting into these debate/arguments with me that makes no sense....yet when I tell the facts they shut up and accept it. It's possible a lot of times they're trying to see how I react and get off in thinking they can control. Sometimes I let it frustrate me and it shows...so I'm glad I read this I kind of 'needed' it
If you are doing well in something, they want to distract you to get control. I'm going to read this link you posted, thank you...

I read the links. It basically said if you are focused or on point, women will attempt to distract or argue with you to get control on you. How you respond is everything. A mans choice of words are crucial. Many of the attacks will be common, so you can count on them happening.
 
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For alpha males its natural and easy like breathing, for the rest of us it does take some courage. Even to truly love someone took courage and to fully accept someone to love you take self-esteem.

The best fights are the ones avoided. Real men only get violent if no other choice because they are well aware of all potential reprecussions based on past events.
 

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The best fights are the ones avoided. Real men only get violent if no other choice because they are well aware of all potential reprecussions based on past events.
On the point @zinc4, its total waste of energy giving attention to something that didnt provide any good or growth to our side.. Its just, thats it. The other party just wanted to vent their insecurities, just ignore the fvck out of them.
 

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Yea women will like your "type". You can be leaner in those pics but still as you stand it's enough to get it done.
resemble my brother, in a way. Your eyebrows are blacker.

You should do alright Geemale, my brother locked down a blonde, curvaceous bisexual sister-in-law for 15 years(married 11).
Same size/body game as you.
 

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Yeah I like how I look in the 1st photo. These are both same event but camera angle somehow made me look a lot slimmer.2nd is I guess real time. I was 30+lbs less than (I gained muscle and fat since than). This was 2 years ago. The point is I think the 1st pic is ideally what I'd want to look like
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that's wild its the same event but the two pics look different.
Now you know holding your head up high and smiling all teeth changes your look positively. Right on, good going man.
 

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resemble my brother, in a way. Your eyebrows are blacker.

You should do alright Geemale, my brother locked down a blonde, curvaceous bisexual sister-in-law for 15 years(married 11).
Same size/body game as you.
How does a bisexual women holds in a marriages? Does she still need other women for sexual desires when his husband away?
 

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How does a bisexual women holds in a marriages? Does she still need other women for sexual desires when his husband away?
good question. I think they invite couples over, a lot.
She's a happy stay at home housewife with more than a dozen dogs there and he set up my mom in a type of in-law suite most of the time there since Dad died in 2015 so she doesn't spend too much time alone at her house. Either woman.
 

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good question. I think they invite couples over, a lot.
She's a happy stay at home housewife with more than a dozen dogs there and he set up my mom in a type of in-law suite most of the time there since Dad died in 2015 so she doesn't spend too much time alone at her house. Either woman.
Sounds like a mutual swingers routines, on casual occurrence, benefits both your bro and sis in law.
 

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hey, I don't know for sure though
I don't ask, they don't tell.
They ARE very happy, that's for sure. They'll stay married til death like my parents, both grandparents, her parents and grandparents, her brother etc.

Good match.
Sounds like a mutual swingers routines, on casual occurrence, benefits both your bro and sis in law.
 

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that's wild its the same event but the two pics look different.
Now you know holding your head up high and smiling all teeth changes your look positively. Right on, good going man.
Some of it I think is due to lighting/posture. In my opinion the fatter one is the real genuine me. The other type I remember I felt fake walking a certain way like a model...I'm sure it works well attracting women at the time but it doesn't settle with me not sure why.

Also a bodybuilder on YouTube proved that posture/lighting/facial expression can make a big difference. He was mocking Instagram fitness people who make fake before and after pics or try tolresent themselve in pics differently....he put a side by side and looked very different in both. Even tho they were 5-10 min apart for the sake of proving it.
 

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resemble my brother, in a way. Your eyebrows are blacker.

You should do alright Geemale, my brother locked down a blonde, curvaceous bisexual sister-in-law for 15 years(married 11).
Same size/body game as you.
Is she slim? I don't like thick women lol. I wonder why it's easier for bigger guys like me to get slim women than thick/fat girls to get with slim/lean chicks...or is that just me thinking that?
 

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Some of it I think is due to lighting/posture. In my opinion the fatter one is the real genuine me. The other type I remember I felt fake walking a certain way like a model...I'm sure it works well attracting women at the time but it doesn't settle with me not sure why.

Also a bodybuilder on YouTube proved that posture/lighting/facial expression can make a big difference. He was mocking Instagram fitness people who make fake before and after pics or try tolresent themselve in pics differently....he put a side by side and looked very different in both. Even tho they were 5-10 min apart for the sake of proving it.
You're right.
 

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Is she slim? I don't like thick women lol. I wonder why it's easier for bigger guys like me to get slim women than thick/fat girls to get with slim/lean chicks...or is that just me thinking that?
Curvy. Not thicc with athletic, not muscular body. Truth be told, they each gained a tiny bit of weight since 2005.
 

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Yeah that's what I'm saying man I like slim women and that's why I want to get lean ideally
You got this. You can do it.
 

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You got this. You can do it.
Are you lean? Anyways what's funny is something I heard from bill Burr podcast today. Guy said he gets more/hotter looking women as he got older compared to when he was good looking and younger. Bill replied saying women are less intimidated of less good looking guys that are fat, etc and will give them a chance and that's only reason why they're going for him...combined with there are women who will go for those 'types' of course cause again they're intimidated of good looking guys..Someone mentioned to this thread to me as well.
I think part of this true, but what's also true which is my case, I am more experienced in dating now compared to before when I was being shy/****y/expecting women to come to me(feminine way of approaching) for being good looking when I was younger, etc which is ironic. Cause ideally having both would be optimal. I didn't get what dude mean when he said that but j think I've heard that from guys before. What's your opinion on that?
 

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Are you lean? Anyways what's funny is something I heard from bill Burr podcast today. Guy said he gets more/hotter looking women as he got older compared to when he was good looking and younger. Bill replied saying women are less intimidated of less good looking guys that are fat, etc and will give them a chance and that's only reason why they're going for him...combined with there are women who will go for those 'types' of course cause again they're intimidated of good looking guys..Someone mentioned to this thread to me as well.
I think part of this true, but what's also true which is my case, I am more experienced in dating now compared to before when I was being shy/****y/expecting women to come to me(feminine way of approaching) for being good looking when I was younger, etc which is ironic. Cause ideally having both would be optimal. I didn't get what dude mean when he said that but j think I've heard that from guys before. What's your opinion on that?
No, I'm not lean like another female on Sosuave that posts a couple times a month.
But what has changed is how much stronger and confident I am and look.
I hold myself erect with shoulders back and I'm more comfortable walking slower.
I'm very athletic/quick and have fast reflexes with excellent hand/eye coordination and both genders have given me IOIs and approached me.
I'm focused on tweaking my internal body chemistry and strangling the debt that I've been unusually carrying since the breakup of my engagement and family members' deaths.
I wouldn't know if not being leaner wouldn't get me a relationship or staying more stout/athletic would because I usually only start relationships with me as the one pursuing and I'm on my purpose and chasing excellence right now. And funny enough, my body shape is leaning out just by concentrating on what I consume(food and money/budget wise)
I found a girl with my body type and size on the internet the other day. I can find her again and post it. She is a U.K. shotput athlete. I found her picture trying to find another picture for a thread on sosuave the other day.
 

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Whether you are or aren't ...some women will criticize men cause they get off on exercising their power over men. I don't read sosuave newsletter e-mail articles much but sometimes I will if bored. I'm glad I did today and found this article:


I'm a self improvement type of guy(I won't BS you I sometimes make excuses like the weight loss with you lol) and noticed sometimes last 1-2 years (especially 6 months or so ) women getting into these debate/arguments with me that makes no sense....yet when I tell the facts they shut up and accept it. It's possible a lot of times they're trying to see how I react and get off in thinking they can control. Sometimes I let it frustrate me and it shows...so I'm glad I read this I kind of 'needed' it
For me something like amuse mastery is pretty good when women criticized me.

When women tell me what a real man should be, i laugh it out and say yeah sure you know what a real man should be.
Yeah you have a lot of experience being a real man right?



I never let ppl define me or my actions, i do and say what i want , i own up to it and if you dont like it idc.



Shaming and criticizing are control tactics, dont let it happen.
 
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