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Master Don Juan
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Get the idea yeah.. Good tho it works for you.And this time is not about perfect results. Its about some maintenance and good fitness.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Get the idea yeah.. Good tho it works for you.And this time is not about perfect results. Its about some maintenance and good fitness.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Muscles will get cold and atrophy with no use. What I'm doing keeps blood moving, pumps, can even cut up. I will have most of the gear to get my workouts done around the residence in the future.Get the idea yeah.. Good tho it works for you.
Thats true. Im a heavy lifter, push up wont cut for me it will just putting me in fatigue crash and athrophy will be unavoidable anyway without proper workout routine.Muscles will get cold and atrophy with no use. What I'm doing keeps blood moving, pumps, can even cut up. I will have most of the gear to get my workouts done around the residence in the future.
Your preaching to the choir, I told you guys my numbers. My routine keeps things as best intact as I'm going to get. If I want resistance I can wear my 45 lbs weight vest.Thats true. Im a heavy lifter, push up wont cut for me it will just putting me in fatigue crash and athrophy will be unavoidable anyway without proper workout routine.
Your making excuses bro.Your preaching to the choir, I told you guys my numbers. My routine keeps things as best intact as I'm going to get. If I want resistance I can wear my 45 lbs weight vest.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Not excuse im as well waiting for my resistance bands to come in.. In next few days i will be able to workout again at home.. Got my creatine whey and preworkout stuff restocked last weekYour making excuses bro.
Smart guy. I would've never considered bands before corona. Now with bands we can travel and have no excuse.Not excuse im as well waiting for my resistance bands to come in.. In next few days i will be able to workout again at home.. Got my creatine whey and preworkout stuff restocked last week
Lol.. The problem is its fvk hard to refit your essential workout needs in the time like this. The shop were close all being moved on 100% online trade..Smart guy. I would've never considered bands before corona. Now with bands we can travel and have no excuse.
And online trade is out of stock or prices jacked up. Some of these options we are considering now were always decent and better than missing a work out.Lol.. The problem is its fvk hard to refit your essential workout needs in the time like this. The shop were close all being moved on 100% online trade..
Yeah, thats the problem when one market were dominant not to mention the rising and growth of the online scams.And online trade is out of stock or prices jacked up. Some of these options we are considering now were always decent and better than missing a work out.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I ordered resistance bands 10,20,30,40,50 lb resistance 2 each for $24.95 and a doorway pullup bar for $41.00 off of Amazon today.Yeah, thats the problem when one market were dominant not to mention the rising and growth of the online scams.
I have a bunch of resistance bands from when I was rehabbing my rotator cuff problems. Seems to be well behind me now, but for awhile I didn't think it would ever go away. That's the funny thing about getting old. I had a pain in the arch of my foot for several years. Swollen arthritic knuckles for awhile there. Various joint pains. Then the rotator cuff issue. Another excrutiating shoulder pain that lasted about a year. So far these things have always resolved, although I may have had to lay off or modify my workout. I don't do any rows or back of neck exercises any longer. I miss doing rows too. Oh well.I ordered resistance bands 10,20,30,40,50 lb resistance 2 each for $24.95 and a doorway pullup bar for $41.00 off of Amazon today.
Im old (48) but as long as i keep working out my body feels great.I have a bunch of resistance bands from when I was rehabbing my rotator cuff problems. Seems to be well behind me now, but for awhile I didn't think it would ever go away. That's the funny thing about getting old. I had a pain in the arch of my foot for several years. Swollen arthritic knuckles for awhile there. Various joint pains. Then the rotator cuff issue. Another excrutiating shoulder pain that lasted about a year. So far these things have always resolved, although I may have had to lay off or modify my workout. I don't do any rows or back of neck exercises any longer. I miss doing rows too. Oh well.
I prefer working out at home anyway. I've got my weight bench, barbell, dumbells, kettle bells, and several other pieces of fitness equipment. It's definitely paying off now. Finish my workout, no travel, and seconds later I'm on the couch guzzling water, can't beat it. There are a few pieces I'd like to have but don't want to dedicate the space to.
easy on the old bud, you're only 2 years older than stringpuller and he would have been in my class.Im old (48) but as long as i keep working out my body feels great.
48 doesn't sound that old to me. Getting close thoughIm old (48) but as long as i keep working out my body feels great.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I was just saying it feels young and good, no soreness so long as I keep working out. If I stop moving, then I start to notice some tightness.easy on the old bud, you're only 2 years older than stringpuller and he would have been in my class.
Ernestine Shepherd is old. She looks 40 but is 80. World's oldest female bodybuilder.
just trying to encourage you not to call yourself old.....yetI was just saying it feels young and good, no soreness so long as I keep working out. If I stop moving, then I start to notice some tightness.
My grandma was a "spark plug" in the fam all the way till 85 when she died. She's a very sharp, quick woman, who was always moving. My mom and them always were trying to "sit her down". I explained to my mom, that if they "sit her down" that she might not get back up, to let her help out and do her part as long as she's not killing herself.just trying to encourage you not to call yourself old.....yet
Awesome you got it figured out to keep moving to not hurt.
Keep up the good stuff Mister![]()
awww, good on ya, excellent grandson-you did a good job.My grandma was a "spark plug" in the fam all the way till 85 when she died. She's a very sharp, quick woman, who was always moving. My mom and them always were trying to "sit her down". I explained to my mom, that if they "sit her down" that she might not get back up, to let her help out and do her part as long as she's not killing herself.
I don't feel old, my age is "old" but then again I think a wise well built 40's with good money is hard to beat. So when I say "old" i'm joking. Women do tax you for your age number, cause when i'm in my best shape, guys in their mid 20's, 30's are less fit most of them less fit, but the ladies hear my number and mentally tax me a bit. Makes me feel like I have to win some body building or fitness titles or something.awww, good on ya, excellent grandson-you did a good job.
She knew she was impressing you.
I like hearing about elderly wonderkids.
I watched the world's oldest bodybuilders yt video and the first 5 Mr. Olympia's and where they are now videos after I made that retort.
So inspiring.
If you live until 104 like one of the world's oldest than you're not even at midlife yet.
Saw your work in pics earlier in this thread and it looks like you've got it down.....just hypervigilant to men saying they're old.
It's a state of mind.
I work with a few mechanics with over 45 years experience and they refuse to slow down.
I really feel in awe and like its a privilege to work with them and learn from them. They neg each other but never themselves about age.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.