That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Jesus, maybe they just need education to liberate themselves from their ignorance. It's not a crime to be a simp. It just works against their best interests in finding true love and companionship in their lives.Onlyfans needs to be banned and the simps who use it deserve prison time/psychiatric help
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
And live a monastic life?Simps gonna simp.
Avoid OnlyFans, porn tube sites, and Instagram thots.
No. Get laid.And live a monastic life?![]()
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
And what if, even after all the "internal growth" a man does, women still look at him as low-tier, and thus don't want to sex him up? It's like telling someone who has hit the celibacy trifecta that all he has to do to ascend is to get more tall, handsome & white.No. Get laid.
You would trade gas for sex.I'm talking about a Max Mad apocalyptic scenario.
Yeah, its like telling someone who cant make ends meet to just get a higher paying job. Advice like that is so uncool.And what if, even after all the "internal growth" a man does, women still look at him as low-tier, and thus don't want to sex him up? It's like telling someone who has hit the celibacy trifecta that all he has to do to ascend is to get more tall, handsome & white.![]()
I told you so mate... haha!I am truly at a loss: I had thought that with record inflation, skyrocketing gas prices and food prices that men would finally be forced to stop their SIMPing behavior... but I was wrong.
It seems that men are getting themselves into debt just to continue their SIMP behavior....
I'm now of the opinion that there won't be a correction unless something apocalyptic happens... I'm talking about a Max Mad apocalyptic scenario.