"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Jesus, maybe they just need education to liberate themselves from their ignorance. It's not a crime to be a simp. It just works against their best interests in finding true love and companionship in their lives.
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The problem is that Onlyfans exploits men, legally. And men need to learn the hard way that money spent on fake wh0res is money flushed down the toilet.
This feels like it's going to cause many men in the West to become what the Japanese call Hikkikomori, aka social recluses. Take weak men and pour some pandemic and amazon home delivery on them and voila.
Honestly, let them be. More women for the rest of us and less weak men raising weak kids.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Unless someone is born genetically wrong, there is a good chance that the vicious cycle begun at home or at school.
It seems that men are getting themselves into debt just to continue their SIMP behavior....
I'm now of the opinion that there won't be a correction unless something apocalyptic happens... I'm talking about a Max Mad apocalyptic scenario.
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And live a monastic life?
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No. Get laid.And live a monastic life?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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And what if, even after all the "internal growth" a man does, women still look at him as low-tier, and thus don't want to sex him up? It's like telling someone who has hit the celibacy trifecta that all he has to do to ascend is to get more tall, handsome & white.
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You would trade gas for sex.
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Yeah, its like telling someone who cant make ends meet to just get a higher paying job. Advice like that is so uncool.And what if, even after all the "internal growth" a man does, women still look at him as low-tier, and thus don't want to sex him up? It's like telling someone who has hit the celibacy trifecta that all he has to do to ascend is to get more tall, handsome & white.
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I told you so mate... haha!