"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Carl Benjamin - OnlyFans Is Destroying Society

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I thought this was a good discussion

 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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He did not just mentioned OF, they talk about MGTOW, Twitter and the internet as a whole and how its keeping people isolated. They call it self isolation. In the context of validation women are heavily validated across all social media platforms.
 

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Onlyfans needs to be banned and the simps who use it deserve prison time/psychiatric help
 

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Onlyfans needs to be banned and the simps who use it deserve prison time/psychiatric help
Jesus, maybe they just need education to liberate themselves from their ignorance. It's not a crime to be a simp. It just works against their best interests in finding true love and companionship in their lives.
 

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Banning things doesn't make them go away, it just makes them go underground.

The problem is that Onlyfans exploits men, legally. And men need to learn the hard way that money spent on fake wh0res is money flushed down the toilet.

This feels like it's going to cause many men in the West to become what the Japanese call Hikkikomori, aka social recluses. Take weak men and pour some pandemic and amazon home delivery on them and voila.

Honestly, let them be. More women for the rest of us and less weak men raising weak kids.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Those men are not necessarily bad, weak or evil...they are just drug addicts that developed an addiction due to bad upbringing.

Unless someone is born genetically wrong, there is a good chance that the vicious cycle begun at home or at school.
 

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I am truly at a loss: I had thought that with record inflation, skyrocketing gas prices and food prices that men would finally be forced to stop their SIMPing behavior... but I was wrong.

It seems that men are getting themselves into debt just to continue their SIMP behavior....

I'm now of the opinion that there won't be a correction unless something apocalyptic happens... I'm talking about a Max Mad apocalyptic scenario.
 

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Simps gonna simp.

Avoid OnlyFans, porn tube sites, and Instagram thots.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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No. Get laid.
And what if, even after all the "internal growth" a man does, women still look at him as low-tier, and thus don't want to sex him up? It's like telling someone who has hit the celibacy trifecta that all he has to do to ascend is to get more tall, handsome & white. :rolleyes:
 

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And what if, even after all the "internal growth" a man does, women still look at him as low-tier, and thus don't want to sex him up? It's like telling someone who has hit the celibacy trifecta that all he has to do to ascend is to get more tall, handsome & white. :rolleyes:
Yeah, its like telling someone who cant make ends meet to just get a higher paying job. Advice like that is so uncool.
 

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I am truly at a loss: I had thought that with record inflation, skyrocketing gas prices and food prices that men would finally be forced to stop their SIMPing behavior... but I was wrong.

It seems that men are getting themselves into debt just to continue their SIMP behavior....

I'm now of the opinion that there won't be a correction unless something apocalyptic happens... I'm talking about a Max Mad apocalyptic scenario.
I told you so mate... haha!
 
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