"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I thought this was a good discussion

 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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He did not just mentioned OF, they talk about MGTOW, Twitter and the internet as a whole and how its keeping people isolated. They call it self isolation. In the context of validation women are heavily validated across all social media platforms.
 

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Onlyfans needs to be banned and the simps who use it deserve prison time/psychiatric help
 

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Onlyfans needs to be banned and the simps who use it deserve prison time/psychiatric help
Jesus, maybe they just need education to liberate themselves from their ignorance. It's not a crime to be a simp. It just works against their best interests in finding true love and companionship in their lives.
 

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Banning things doesn't make them go away, it just makes them go underground.

The problem is that Onlyfans exploits men, legally. And men need to learn the hard way that money spent on fake wh0res is money flushed down the toilet.

This feels like it's going to cause many men in the West to become what the Japanese call Hikkikomori, aka social recluses. Take weak men and pour some pandemic and amazon home delivery on them and voila.

Honestly, let them be. More women for the rest of us and less weak men raising weak kids.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Those men are not necessarily bad, weak or evil...they are just drug addicts that developed an addiction due to bad upbringing.

Unless someone is born genetically wrong, there is a good chance that the vicious cycle begun at home or at school.
 

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I am truly at a loss: I had thought that with record inflation, skyrocketing gas prices and food prices that men would finally be forced to stop their SIMPing behavior... but I was wrong.

It seems that men are getting themselves into debt just to continue their SIMP behavior....

I'm now of the opinion that there won't be a correction unless something apocalyptic happens... I'm talking about a Max Mad apocalyptic scenario.
 

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Simps gonna simp.

Avoid OnlyFans, porn tube sites, and Instagram thots.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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No. Get laid.
And what if, even after all the "internal growth" a man does, women still look at him as low-tier, and thus don't want to sex him up? It's like telling someone who has hit the celibacy trifecta that all he has to do to ascend is to get more tall, handsome & white. :rolleyes:
 

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And what if, even after all the "internal growth" a man does, women still look at him as low-tier, and thus don't want to sex him up? It's like telling someone who has hit the celibacy trifecta that all he has to do to ascend is to get more tall, handsome & white. :rolleyes:
Yeah, its like telling someone who cant make ends meet to just get a higher paying job. Advice like that is so uncool.
 

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I am truly at a loss: I had thought that with record inflation, skyrocketing gas prices and food prices that men would finally be forced to stop their SIMPing behavior... but I was wrong.

It seems that men are getting themselves into debt just to continue their SIMP behavior....

I'm now of the opinion that there won't be a correction unless something apocalyptic happens... I'm talking about a Max Mad apocalyptic scenario.
I told you so mate... haha!
 
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