backbreaker
Master Don Juan
1. cold call the phone book.
2. service logs
3. service bay
2. service logs
3. service bay
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
backbreaker said:when i say i can sale condoms to a nunnery I can sale anything. the key to dealing with an objection is to 1. understnad what they are objecting to and 2. understand their motives
a person comes to the lot they say they are just looking. okay.
1. if you watch them, the very first thing they got out on the lot and saw is what they came to see. the rest is just to pass on the i'm just looking facade. no one comes to the lot with NOTHING in mind. come on. whatever they get there and the first thing they go to is what they wanted to see
2. a person who says htey are just looking they are telling you they don't like to be pressured. so what i do is i changed the subject to nothing to do with cars. find something to shoot the **** with. our lot was right next to a movie theater so i would ask are they just killing time until they go tot he movies most were, and we'd start talking about movies. I sold a few cars like that. that night. i made one guy miss his movie he came to go see, sold him a blue RX8.
but even if they don't buy anything or don't want really talk about buying something don't push it. stay shooting the **** mode, beucase you are planting the seed in their mind that you aren't going to pressure cook them. and when they ARE ready to buy, they will come looking for you beucase they know they are going to have the experience they want. I 'd get 3-4 of these a month guys just out of the blue pop up with my card and i talked to them and now they are ready to buy.
some people you got to pressure. the guy who you know is ready to buy a car but doesn't know about ****, can't make a decision for him self you got to pressure cook that guy or he will never guy. you have tom ake the decision for him. but you don't pressure cook the i'm just looking guy.
the last day i ever sold cars i sold this older woman a yellow honda S2000 and i think i had netted like 2400 dollars or something i had about 650 dollars coming to me frmo the deal. not a real big deal but one i would take 7 days a week. anyway, i get my comission c heck, it's coming back as a mini deal (100 dollars).
this mother****er, the F and I guy, *****d out the markup on the car to sale his warranty package. we damn near went to blows over that ****. i said you know what, my business is making a little money now **** this **** i'm not slaving over this **** to get ripped off like this.
you are wasting your time working for a lot with a bad F and I guy
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Kupid Diggs said:Back breaker and AJ, can you gentlemen help me out? So here's my situation, I want to buy a new car in July. I have about 24k saved up. I really want to get an Acura ILX. The sticker price is about 26k. I think the average people are paying is about 24,500. What are some ways I can get the car at or below the MSRP price? I'll probably make a down payment of 15k and finance the rest.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Nothing more annoying than a pushy car salesman who tries to close you right there and then. Whenever that happens, I usually walk away and go to another dealership.BeginningDJ said:Selling cars is like clubbing, if you don't close the first time, you won't see them again.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.