backbreaker
Master Don Juan
1. cold call the phone book.
2. service logs
3. service bay
2. service logs
3. service bay
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
backbreaker said:when i say i can sale condoms to a nunnery I can sale anything. the key to dealing with an objection is to 1. understnad what they are objecting to and 2. understand their motives
a person comes to the lot they say they are just looking. okay.
1. if you watch them, the very first thing they got out on the lot and saw is what they came to see. the rest is just to pass on the i'm just looking facade. no one comes to the lot with NOTHING in mind. come on. whatever they get there and the first thing they go to is what they wanted to see
2. a person who says htey are just looking they are telling you they don't like to be pressured. so what i do is i changed the subject to nothing to do with cars. find something to shoot the **** with. our lot was right next to a movie theater so i would ask are they just killing time until they go tot he movies most were, and we'd start talking about movies. I sold a few cars like that. that night. i made one guy miss his movie he came to go see, sold him a blue RX8.
but even if they don't buy anything or don't want really talk about buying something don't push it. stay shooting the **** mode, beucase you are planting the seed in their mind that you aren't going to pressure cook them. and when they ARE ready to buy, they will come looking for you beucase they know they are going to have the experience they want. I 'd get 3-4 of these a month guys just out of the blue pop up with my card and i talked to them and now they are ready to buy.
some people you got to pressure. the guy who you know is ready to buy a car but doesn't know about ****, can't make a decision for him self you got to pressure cook that guy or he will never guy. you have tom ake the decision for him. but you don't pressure cook the i'm just looking guy.
the last day i ever sold cars i sold this older woman a yellow honda S2000 and i think i had netted like 2400 dollars or something i had about 650 dollars coming to me frmo the deal. not a real big deal but one i would take 7 days a week. anyway, i get my comission c heck, it's coming back as a mini deal (100 dollars).
this mother****er, the F and I guy, *****d out the markup on the car to sale his warranty package. we damn near went to blows over that ****. i said you know what, my business is making a little money now **** this **** i'm not slaving over this **** to get ripped off like this.
you are wasting your time working for a lot with a bad F and I guy
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Kupid Diggs said:Back breaker and AJ, can you gentlemen help me out? So here's my situation, I want to buy a new car in July. I have about 24k saved up. I really want to get an Acura ILX. The sticker price is about 26k. I think the average people are paying is about 24,500. What are some ways I can get the car at or below the MSRP price? I'll probably make a down payment of 15k and finance the rest.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Nothing more annoying than a pushy car salesman who tries to close you right there and then. Whenever that happens, I usually walk away and go to another dealership.BeginningDJ said:Selling cars is like clubbing, if you don't close the first time, you won't see them again.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.