backbreaker
Master Don Juan
1. cold call the phone book.
2. service logs
3. service bay
2. service logs
3. service bay
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
backbreaker said:when i say i can sale condoms to a nunnery I can sale anything. the key to dealing with an objection is to 1. understnad what they are objecting to and 2. understand their motives
a person comes to the lot they say they are just looking. okay.
1. if you watch them, the very first thing they got out on the lot and saw is what they came to see. the rest is just to pass on the i'm just looking facade. no one comes to the lot with NOTHING in mind. come on. whatever they get there and the first thing they go to is what they wanted to see
2. a person who says htey are just looking they are telling you they don't like to be pressured. so what i do is i changed the subject to nothing to do with cars. find something to shoot the **** with. our lot was right next to a movie theater so i would ask are they just killing time until they go tot he movies most were, and we'd start talking about movies. I sold a few cars like that. that night. i made one guy miss his movie he came to go see, sold him a blue RX8.
but even if they don't buy anything or don't want really talk about buying something don't push it. stay shooting the **** mode, beucase you are planting the seed in their mind that you aren't going to pressure cook them. and when they ARE ready to buy, they will come looking for you beucase they know they are going to have the experience they want. I 'd get 3-4 of these a month guys just out of the blue pop up with my card and i talked to them and now they are ready to buy.
some people you got to pressure. the guy who you know is ready to buy a car but doesn't know about ****, can't make a decision for him self you got to pressure cook that guy or he will never guy. you have tom ake the decision for him. but you don't pressure cook the i'm just looking guy.
the last day i ever sold cars i sold this older woman a yellow honda S2000 and i think i had netted like 2400 dollars or something i had about 650 dollars coming to me frmo the deal. not a real big deal but one i would take 7 days a week. anyway, i get my comission c heck, it's coming back as a mini deal (100 dollars).
this mother****er, the F and I guy, *****d out the markup on the car to sale his warranty package. we damn near went to blows over that ****. i said you know what, my business is making a little money now **** this **** i'm not slaving over this **** to get ripped off like this.
you are wasting your time working for a lot with a bad F and I guy
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Kupid Diggs said:Back breaker and AJ, can you gentlemen help me out? So here's my situation, I want to buy a new car in July. I have about 24k saved up. I really want to get an Acura ILX. The sticker price is about 26k. I think the average people are paying is about 24,500. What are some ways I can get the car at or below the MSRP price? I'll probably make a down payment of 15k and finance the rest.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Nothing more annoying than a pushy car salesman who tries to close you right there and then. Whenever that happens, I usually walk away and go to another dealership.BeginningDJ said:Selling cars is like clubbing, if you don't close the first time, you won't see them again.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.