"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Can anyone id this model?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Esther Baxter
Maxtro
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Nice find. I really like black girls with that kind of body and hair.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
MeteorMash
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I would drink that woman's bath water
Julius_Seizeher
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Reminds me of a time at a strip club, I leaned to my cousin and said, "Man, it'd be cool if they brought out a black chick."
Two seconds later, these purple lights flip on and the announcer sais, "Up next...Chocolate Thunder!!!"
Eek!
Two seconds later, these purple lights flip on and the announcer sais, "Up next...Chocolate Thunder!!!"
Eek!
bigjohnson
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Not my taste but I can see why you like her.
MeteorMash
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Maxtro
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In regards to the above picture.
It's funny how I said I like black girls with her type of body, but the whole booty thing doesn't work for me. To me that much ass is excessive. As long as it ain't flat then I'm OK. I'm most definitely a breast man. Esther Baxter is reported at being a 32 DDD and I'm all over that.
It's funny how I said I like black girls with her type of body, but the whole booty thing doesn't work for me. To me that much ass is excessive. As long as it ain't flat then I'm OK. I'm most definitely a breast man. Esther Baxter is reported at being a 32 DDD and I'm all over that.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
thedude4242
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here legs are a little too long but I would hit it.
bigjohnson
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She looks big, I have no idea for sure but I bet, given how small her head looks compared to the rest of her, that she's not only sort of thick but also quite tall, maybe 140+ and while she's not fat per se she's just way bigger than I dig 'em.
I'm more a pretty face, b+ cup, petite round ass man.
Proves there's someone for everyone. of course, before the crying starts, of course I'd do her. I'm a guy.
She's just not near the top of my picklist.
EDIT:
Yup, 5' 7, so smaller than I thought but not a lot, and she claims 130. I bet she's heavier than that.
I'm more a pretty face, b+ cup, petite round ass man.
Proves there's someone for everyone. of course, before the crying starts, of course I'd do her. I'm a guy.
She's just not near the top of my picklist.EDIT:
Yup, 5' 7, so smaller than I thought but not a lot, and she claims 130. I bet she's heavier than that.
If you think she's fat you are ridiculous. She has NO stomach whatsoever. She has a great hip to waist ratio and you look at her legs and they are perfectly toned, no cellulite to be found. How on earth is this woman fat?BigJimbo said:
She is what you would call meaty, or "thick", but fat?? You must be smoking something.
It is mostly black and Latino men that find this kind of body preferable. White men used to long ago, when you look back at Renaissance paintings of beautiful women, they idealized women that had thick, luscious bodies like this. I think the gay influence in the fashion/modeling industry is what started the whole skinny as beautiful thing.
MeteorMash
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The camera adds ten poundsBigJimbo said:
She's probably much smaller in real life.
I'd say she has to be atleast 150 though, because my girl is as tall as she is, smaller, and ways about 160
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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everybody has their preferences broMaxtro said:
But I am an Ass man til I die. A booty that big just likes look something I could Bite into
And to the poster who said this woman is fat.... You must need these
http://oldstersview.files.wordpress.com/2009/09/glasses.jpg
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bigjohnson
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CTApprentice said:
She looks a lot better there. Was she slimmer in that bikini shot? She looks slimmer.
Maxtro
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She's hot, but why is she posing next to a trannie?CTApprentice said:
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"Anything I don't agree with has it's roots in the <insert negative origin theory>"speakeasy said:
Being fat was only "attractive" at certain points in history, and that was because fat meant prosperity. In recent history there has been a lot of emphasis of fitness and health from a scientific standpoint, and it's influenced our ideals. On that tangent, if you want to see a sub-culture that's heavily influenced by homosexuals have a look at the local gym culture.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.