"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Can anyone id this model?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Esther Baxter
Maxtro
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Nice find. I really like black girls with that kind of body and hair.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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I would drink that woman's bath water
Julius_Seizeher
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Reminds me of a time at a strip club, I leaned to my cousin and said, "Man, it'd be cool if they brought out a black chick."
Two seconds later, these purple lights flip on and the announcer sais, "Up next...Chocolate Thunder!!!"
Eek!
Two seconds later, these purple lights flip on and the announcer sais, "Up next...Chocolate Thunder!!!"
Eek!
bigjohnson
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Not my taste but I can see why you like her.
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Maxtro
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In regards to the above picture.
It's funny how I said I like black girls with her type of body, but the whole booty thing doesn't work for me. To me that much ass is excessive. As long as it ain't flat then I'm OK. I'm most definitely a breast man. Esther Baxter is reported at being a 32 DDD and I'm all over that.
It's funny how I said I like black girls with her type of body, but the whole booty thing doesn't work for me. To me that much ass is excessive. As long as it ain't flat then I'm OK. I'm most definitely a breast man. Esther Baxter is reported at being a 32 DDD and I'm all over that.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
thedude4242
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here legs are a little too long but I would hit it.
bigjohnson
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She looks big, I have no idea for sure but I bet, given how small her head looks compared to the rest of her, that she's not only sort of thick but also quite tall, maybe 140+ and while she's not fat per se she's just way bigger than I dig 'em.
I'm more a pretty face, b+ cup, petite round ass man.
Proves there's someone for everyone. of course, before the crying starts, of course I'd do her. I'm a guy.
She's just not near the top of my picklist.
EDIT:
Yup, 5' 7, so smaller than I thought but not a lot, and she claims 130. I bet she's heavier than that.
I'm more a pretty face, b+ cup, petite round ass man.
Proves there's someone for everyone. of course, before the crying starts, of course I'd do her. I'm a guy.
She's just not near the top of my picklist.EDIT:
Yup, 5' 7, so smaller than I thought but not a lot, and she claims 130. I bet she's heavier than that.
If you think she's fat you are ridiculous. She has NO stomach whatsoever. She has a great hip to waist ratio and you look at her legs and they are perfectly toned, no cellulite to be found. How on earth is this woman fat?BigJimbo said:
She is what you would call meaty, or "thick", but fat?? You must be smoking something.
It is mostly black and Latino men that find this kind of body preferable. White men used to long ago, when you look back at Renaissance paintings of beautiful women, they idealized women that had thick, luscious bodies like this. I think the gay influence in the fashion/modeling industry is what started the whole skinny as beautiful thing.
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The camera adds ten poundsBigJimbo said:
She's probably much smaller in real life.
I'd say she has to be atleast 150 though, because my girl is as tall as she is, smaller, and ways about 160
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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everybody has their preferences broMaxtro said:
But I am an Ass man til I die. A booty that big just likes look something I could Bite into
And to the poster who said this woman is fat.... You must need these
http://oldstersview.files.wordpress.com/2009/09/glasses.jpg
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bigjohnson
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CTApprentice said:
She looks a lot better there. Was she slimmer in that bikini shot? She looks slimmer.
Maxtro
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She's hot, but why is she posing next to a trannie?CTApprentice said:
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"Anything I don't agree with has it's roots in the <insert negative origin theory>"speakeasy said:
Being fat was only "attractive" at certain points in history, and that was because fat meant prosperity. In recent history there has been a lot of emphasis of fitness and health from a scientific standpoint, and it's influenced our ideals. On that tangent, if you want to see a sub-culture that's heavily influenced by homosexuals have a look at the local gym culture.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.