"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Can anyone id this model?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Esther Baxter
Maxtro
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Nice find. I really like black girls with that kind of body and hair.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
MeteorMash
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I would drink that woman's bath water
Julius_Seizeher
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Reminds me of a time at a strip club, I leaned to my cousin and said, "Man, it'd be cool if they brought out a black chick."
Two seconds later, these purple lights flip on and the announcer sais, "Up next...Chocolate Thunder!!!"
Eek!
Two seconds later, these purple lights flip on and the announcer sais, "Up next...Chocolate Thunder!!!"
Eek!
bigjohnson
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Not my taste but I can see why you like her.
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Maxtro
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In regards to the above picture.
It's funny how I said I like black girls with her type of body, but the whole booty thing doesn't work for me. To me that much ass is excessive. As long as it ain't flat then I'm OK. I'm most definitely a breast man. Esther Baxter is reported at being a 32 DDD and I'm all over that.
It's funny how I said I like black girls with her type of body, but the whole booty thing doesn't work for me. To me that much ass is excessive. As long as it ain't flat then I'm OK. I'm most definitely a breast man. Esther Baxter is reported at being a 32 DDD and I'm all over that.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
thedude4242
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here legs are a little too long but I would hit it.
bigjohnson
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She looks big, I have no idea for sure but I bet, given how small her head looks compared to the rest of her, that she's not only sort of thick but also quite tall, maybe 140+ and while she's not fat per se she's just way bigger than I dig 'em.
I'm more a pretty face, b+ cup, petite round ass man.
Proves there's someone for everyone. of course, before the crying starts, of course I'd do her. I'm a guy.
She's just not near the top of my picklist.
EDIT:
Yup, 5' 7, so smaller than I thought but not a lot, and she claims 130. I bet she's heavier than that.
I'm more a pretty face, b+ cup, petite round ass man.
Proves there's someone for everyone. of course, before the crying starts, of course I'd do her. I'm a guy.
She's just not near the top of my picklist.EDIT:
Yup, 5' 7, so smaller than I thought but not a lot, and she claims 130. I bet she's heavier than that.
If you think she's fat you are ridiculous. She has NO stomach whatsoever. She has a great hip to waist ratio and you look at her legs and they are perfectly toned, no cellulite to be found. How on earth is this woman fat?BigJimbo said:
She is what you would call meaty, or "thick", but fat?? You must be smoking something.
It is mostly black and Latino men that find this kind of body preferable. White men used to long ago, when you look back at Renaissance paintings of beautiful women, they idealized women that had thick, luscious bodies like this. I think the gay influence in the fashion/modeling industry is what started the whole skinny as beautiful thing.
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The camera adds ten poundsBigJimbo said:
She's probably much smaller in real life.
I'd say she has to be atleast 150 though, because my girl is as tall as she is, smaller, and ways about 160
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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everybody has their preferences broMaxtro said:
But I am an Ass man til I die. A booty that big just likes look something I could Bite into
And to the poster who said this woman is fat.... You must need these
http://oldstersview.files.wordpress.com/2009/09/glasses.jpg
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bigjohnson
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CTApprentice said:
She looks a lot better there. Was she slimmer in that bikini shot? She looks slimmer.
Maxtro
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She's hot, but why is she posing next to a trannie?CTApprentice said:
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"Anything I don't agree with has it's roots in the <insert negative origin theory>"speakeasy said:
Being fat was only "attractive" at certain points in history, and that was because fat meant prosperity. In recent history there has been a lot of emphasis of fitness and health from a scientific standpoint, and it's influenced our ideals. On that tangent, if you want to see a sub-culture that's heavily influenced by homosexuals have a look at the local gym culture.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.