"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Can anyone id this model?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Esther Baxter
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Nice find. I really like black girls with that kind of body and hair.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
MeteorMash
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I would drink that woman's bath water
Julius_Seizeher
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Reminds me of a time at a strip club, I leaned to my cousin and said, "Man, it'd be cool if they brought out a black chick."
Two seconds later, these purple lights flip on and the announcer sais, "Up next...Chocolate Thunder!!!"
Eek!
Two seconds later, these purple lights flip on and the announcer sais, "Up next...Chocolate Thunder!!!"
Eek!
bigjohnson
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Not my taste but I can see why you like her.
MeteorMash
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Maxtro
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In regards to the above picture.
It's funny how I said I like black girls with her type of body, but the whole booty thing doesn't work for me. To me that much ass is excessive. As long as it ain't flat then I'm OK. I'm most definitely a breast man. Esther Baxter is reported at being a 32 DDD and I'm all over that.
It's funny how I said I like black girls with her type of body, but the whole booty thing doesn't work for me. To me that much ass is excessive. As long as it ain't flat then I'm OK. I'm most definitely a breast man. Esther Baxter is reported at being a 32 DDD and I'm all over that.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
thedude4242
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here legs are a little too long but I would hit it.
bigjohnson
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She looks big, I have no idea for sure but I bet, given how small her head looks compared to the rest of her, that she's not only sort of thick but also quite tall, maybe 140+ and while she's not fat per se she's just way bigger than I dig 'em.
I'm more a pretty face, b+ cup, petite round ass man.
Proves there's someone for everyone. of course, before the crying starts, of course I'd do her. I'm a guy.
She's just not near the top of my picklist.
EDIT:
Yup, 5' 7, so smaller than I thought but not a lot, and she claims 130. I bet she's heavier than that.
I'm more a pretty face, b+ cup, petite round ass man.
Proves there's someone for everyone. of course, before the crying starts, of course I'd do her. I'm a guy.
She's just not near the top of my picklist.EDIT:
Yup, 5' 7, so smaller than I thought but not a lot, and she claims 130. I bet she's heavier than that.
If you think she's fat you are ridiculous. She has NO stomach whatsoever. She has a great hip to waist ratio and you look at her legs and they are perfectly toned, no cellulite to be found. How on earth is this woman fat?BigJimbo said:
She is what you would call meaty, or "thick", but fat?? You must be smoking something.
It is mostly black and Latino men that find this kind of body preferable. White men used to long ago, when you look back at Renaissance paintings of beautiful women, they idealized women that had thick, luscious bodies like this. I think the gay influence in the fashion/modeling industry is what started the whole skinny as beautiful thing.
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The camera adds ten poundsBigJimbo said:
She's probably much smaller in real life.
I'd say she has to be atleast 150 though, because my girl is as tall as she is, smaller, and ways about 160
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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everybody has their preferences broMaxtro said:
But I am an Ass man til I die. A booty that big just likes look something I could Bite into
And to the poster who said this woman is fat.... You must need these
http://oldstersview.files.wordpress.com/2009/09/glasses.jpg
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bigjohnson
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CTApprentice said:
She looks a lot better there. Was she slimmer in that bikini shot? She looks slimmer.
Maxtro
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She's hot, but why is she posing next to a trannie?CTApprentice said:
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"Anything I don't agree with has it's roots in the <insert negative origin theory>"speakeasy said:
Being fat was only "attractive" at certain points in history, and that was because fat meant prosperity. In recent history there has been a lot of emphasis of fitness and health from a scientific standpoint, and it's influenced our ideals. On that tangent, if you want to see a sub-culture that's heavily influenced by homosexuals have a look at the local gym culture.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.