Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Awesome.CTApprentice said:Esther Baxter
Me too!Maxtro said:Nice find. I really like black girls with that kind of body and hair.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
If you think she's fat you are ridiculous. She has NO stomach whatsoever. She has a great hip to waist ratio and you look at her legs and they are perfectly toned, no cellulite to be found. How on earth is this woman fat?BigJimbo said:130 in her dreams! If she is 5'7" she tops 200 easily! Admit it, fat is now beautiful in America!
The camera adds ten poundsBigJimbo said:130 in her dreams! If she is 5'7" she tops 200 easily! Admit it, fat is now beautiful in America!
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
everybody has their preferences broMaxtro said:In regards to the above picture.
It's funny how I said I like black girls with her type of body, but the whole booty thing doesn't work for me. To me that much ass is excessive. As long as it ain't flat then I'm OK. I'm most definitely a breast man. Esther Baxter is reported at being a 32 DDD and I'm all over that.
CTApprentice said:
She's hot, but why is she posing next to a trannie?CTApprentice said:Here's some pics of her in real life
http://f.imagehost.org/0199/10998372-906442c9ece3b62617321f9d6f0dfc65_4a2c2432-scaled.jpg
"Anything I don't agree with has it's roots in the <insert negative origin theory>"speakeasy said:I think the gay influence in the fashion/modeling industry is what started the whole skinny as beautiful thing.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.