"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Calorie deficit

bigwuz

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Going into a calorie deficit got a lot of weight to lose (30lbs) I'm feeling a little low on energy though any tips. I should add I'm doing the strong lifts program and I walk everyday 5 miles and work early :-(
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

The_flying_dutchman

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you're on the right track. My best advice would be don't go too crazy on the caloric deficit because it's counter-productive -- you lose water weight at first, but then inevitably you'll binge and gain back all the weight plus interest... most men need around 2000 calories per day just to maintain a constant weight.

I would say drop your calories to around 1700 and continue doing the light cardio (walking). Eventually your body will adapt to the walking and you'll need to change it up...

While walking, I recommend dropping down and doing pushups every 2-5 minutes so that it spikes your heart rate.
 

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If you are 30+ lbs overweight, do not drop your cals to 1700 straight away.

Can you give me your current weight and height.
 

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I am overweight but not unhealthy it's hard to explain I'm in good health just feel like I can be ripped if I wanted to I'm 5'6 200lbs fat and muscle
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I am overweight but not unhealthy it's hard to explain I'm in good health just feel like I can be ripped if I wanted to I'm 5'6 200lbs fat and muscle
Also the walking is easy for me except I'm not getting enough sleep because I work a lot
 

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Also the walking is easy for me except I'm not getting enough sleep because I work a lot
at your height, i would drop the 30 lbs you mentioned. just dont do anything drastic. download the lose it app. it will give you a daily calorie budget with the deficit you need. you can set your goal as losing either 2lbs a week or 1.5/1/.5 lbs. this app has helped me lose 10+ lbs in the last few months. hold yourself accountable because weight loss is not easy.

GOOD LUCK!
 
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