Pugsley_f5
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U dated any SMC chicks?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
C+F legs growing slowly.....
- Thread starter Pugsley_f5
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Pugsley_f5
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Yeh now looking over the convo I was a BIT over the top, man I was enjoying myself when I was doing it though, ah the learning experiences to be had........
Giovanni Casanova
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You posted this last night at 8:20. I just now woke up out of the resulting coma. You are a jackass for making me several hours late for work.
MetalFortress
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hahahahaha, you are becoming one of my favorite posters here
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Observe And Learn
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LolFreeStyleZ
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st mary's in md?
Pugsley_f5
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yes, st mary's county in So. MD
FreeStyleZ
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In regard to the long ass post.
Pugsley_f5
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haha funny stuff
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
FreeStyleZ
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i was thinking of going to the school in st mary's, had never heard though that the chicks were really sexy...
Pugsley_f5
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St Mary's College? its a cool school, right on the water, I was born and raised on the lower potomac, the area is gorgeous on the water youll fall in love with the area, very small town, not much to do within 25 mins or so except party and has TONS of history behind the town, which the students there are good at.....youd like it I think I lived and grew up about 30 mins from the college alot of my HS friends went there. If you love the water and water sports you'll fall in love with SMC.
I lived and grew up about 30 mins from the college alot of my HS friends went there. If you love the water and water sports you'll fall in love with SMC.smoke city
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No, I didn't miss the part where you said you are really friends with her. It doesn't matter--unless she is a **radical exception, you won't get anywhere talking to her like that. And you didn't come across as ****y in the conversation, you came across as DESPERATE. When you "persist" in trying to convince a girl that you're "****y&funny" you are selling yourself, and supplicating to her, whether you like it or not. And she knows it.
Many guys here think they should stand on their head, tell jokes, and jump around like a monkey to ENTERTAIN women into liking them. This is the TOTALLY wrong approach.
You're much better off just being yourself (Yes, I DID say that) and embracing your OWN personality, and your own quirks. At the risk of sounding too "self-help", there is a world of interesting stuff to do--get into it and quit giving a **** what ANYONE thinks. If you don't like your current personality, improve it and amplify it until it becomes something you think is attractive. [When you're TRYING to be something, like ****y&funny, it shows in your actions.] One girlfriend I had said it best:
"I love you because you're so much yourself without knowing it"
Dude, you obviously don't believe* in the c&f routine...
But the good news is it doesn't matter what you're into--as long as you BELIEVE in it more than anything else...