"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You posted this last night at 8:20. I just now woke up out of the resulting coma. You are a jackass for making me several hours late for work.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
You posted this last night at 8:20. I just now woke up out of the resulting coma. You are a jackass for making me several hours late for work.
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:D Lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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i was thinking of going to the school in st mary's, had never heard though that the chicks were really sexy...
 
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St Mary's College? its a cool school, right on the water, I was born and raised on the lower potomac, the area is gorgeous on the water youll fall in love with the area, very small town, not much to do within 25 mins or so except party and has TONS of history behind the town, which the students there are good at.....youd like it I think:D I lived and grew up about 30 mins from the college alot of my HS friends went there. If you love the water and water sports you'll fall in love with SMC.
 
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Originally posted by Pugsley_f5
I think you all missed the part where it says I just saw her like 3 days ago, over thanksgiving, when I went back home to md from NC, I have been *friends* with her for some time now but I switched gears a bit....Yes I was prolly over the top in the convo, just like most guys when they start it's REALLY ****y at first then the funny part comes later..... and I did not let up lol, at all.....persistence is my greatest attribute after all
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No, I didn't miss the part where you said you are really friends with her. It doesn't matter--unless she is a **radical exception, you won't get anywhere talking to her like that. And you didn't come across as ****y in the conversation, you came across as DESPERATE. When you "persist" in trying to convince a girl that you're "****y&funny" you are selling yourself, and supplicating to her, whether you like it or not. And she knows it.
Many guys here think they should stand on their head, tell jokes, and jump around like a monkey to ENTERTAIN women into liking them. This is the TOTALLY wrong approach.
You're much better off just being yourself (Yes, I DID say that) and embracing your OWN personality, and your own quirks. At the risk of sounding too "self-help", there is a world of interesting stuff to do--get into it and quit giving a **** what ANYONE thinks. If you don't like your current personality, improve it and amplify it until it becomes something you think is attractive. [When you're TRYING to be something, like ****y&funny, it shows in your actions.] One girlfriend I had said it best:
"I love you because you're so much yourself without knowing it"
Dude, you obviously don't believe* in the c&f routine...
But the good news is it doesn't matter what you're into--as long as you BELIEVE in it more than anything else...
 
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