"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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C+F legs growing slowly.....

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You posted this last night at 8:20. I just now woke up out of the resulting coma. You are a jackass for making me several hours late for work.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
You posted this last night at 8:20. I just now woke up out of the resulting coma. You are a jackass for making me several hours late for work.
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:D Lol
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i was thinking of going to the school in st mary's, had never heard though that the chicks were really sexy...
 
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St Mary's College? its a cool school, right on the water, I was born and raised on the lower potomac, the area is gorgeous on the water youll fall in love with the area, very small town, not much to do within 25 mins or so except party and has TONS of history behind the town, which the students there are good at.....youd like it I think:D I lived and grew up about 30 mins from the college alot of my HS friends went there. If you love the water and water sports you'll fall in love with SMC.
 
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Originally posted by Pugsley_f5
I think you all missed the part where it says I just saw her like 3 days ago, over thanksgiving, when I went back home to md from NC, I have been *friends* with her for some time now but I switched gears a bit....Yes I was prolly over the top in the convo, just like most guys when they start it's REALLY ****y at first then the funny part comes later..... and I did not let up lol, at all.....persistence is my greatest attribute after all
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No, I didn't miss the part where you said you are really friends with her. It doesn't matter--unless she is a **radical exception, you won't get anywhere talking to her like that. And you didn't come across as ****y in the conversation, you came across as DESPERATE. When you "persist" in trying to convince a girl that you're "****y&funny" you are selling yourself, and supplicating to her, whether you like it or not. And she knows it.
Many guys here think they should stand on their head, tell jokes, and jump around like a monkey to ENTERTAIN women into liking them. This is the TOTALLY wrong approach.
You're much better off just being yourself (Yes, I DID say that) and embracing your OWN personality, and your own quirks. At the risk of sounding too "self-help", there is a world of interesting stuff to do--get into it and quit giving a **** what ANYONE thinks. If you don't like your current personality, improve it and amplify it until it becomes something you think is attractive. [When you're TRYING to be something, like ****y&funny, it shows in your actions.] One girlfriend I had said it best:
"I love you because you're so much yourself without knowing it"
Dude, you obviously don't believe* in the c&f routine...
But the good news is it doesn't matter what you're into--as long as you BELIEVE in it more than anything else...
 
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