"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
the-nighthawk
Don Juan
Very Good. Thanks for sharing.
brokenupinside
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I have no patience for mental illness least of all BPD.Having lived with a BPD woman for 12 years I've had my share of that.
What's with the chick on the 3rd video?....7min of her smoking Kools....who cares about your inner turmoil (by the way,she is also hystrionic),yeah baby you are in a "movie".Also what's with the sad piano always playing behind?,it should be the theme form the Exorcist!
All I care about is not to give any of these people 5min of my life.
What's with the chick on the 3rd video?....7min of her smoking Kools....who cares about your inner turmoil (by the way,she is also hystrionic),yeah baby you are in a "movie".Also what's with the sad piano always playing behind?,it should be the theme form the Exorcist!
All I care about is not to give any of these people 5min of my life.
It may seem harsh what youre saying but i fully agree, but some of them never assume that they have.brokenupinside said:
Dated a girl with BPD not long ago and was the worse two weeks of my life, the thing is she was my friend before we dated and no one warm me about that or did i see it.
the-nighthawk
Don Juan
..and then all of her friends believed her that you were the crazy oneGetOveIT said:
Especially the BPD girls / woman who have the BPD criterias only in relationships are hard to spot. And at the end no one will believe you that she was so awful to you. High functional BPDs can be good as friends but in relationships you will know them without their mask. I feel sorry for all the men who are their victims."You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
the-nighthawk
Don Juan
12 years with a BPD woman..brokenupinside said:
Hell no. I'm feeling for you man. When did you've seen the first signs of her poisoned character? Why did you've stayed so long in this hell?brokenupinside
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Hindsight is always 20/20 but looking back I saw signs right away and I wish I had knowledge of this site back then.
Why did I stay?....the same story you will hear from most guys here that have dated/lived/had an LTR with one of these creatures....incredible sex,alluring personality,the highs were just stratospheric and made the lows seem worth it.
It took me a year to get over her,I owe this site a lot.
By the way my BPD girls WAS diagnosed,it's NOT just my opinion.
Why did I stay?....the same story you will hear from most guys here that have dated/lived/had an LTR with one of these creatures....incredible sex,alluring personality,the highs were just stratospheric and made the lows seem worth it.
It took me a year to get over her,I owe this site a lot.
By the way my BPD girls WAS diagnosed,it's NOT just my opinion.
Accension
Senior Don Juan
Histrionic is the worse.brokenupinside said:
It's all about the attention- stupid *****s.
This BPD stuff isn't even an illness, it's just the medical term for a stupid, unstable *****.
You know the felling i supose.the-nighthawk said:..and then all of her friends believed her that you were the crazy one