niceguytoalphamale
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Ok guys if you are ever plagued with this bull****. And shes says we aint kissing. Or screwing. Tell her ok pack your belongings im dropping you off. Friendzoned avoided and a waste of time avoided.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Best way to handle "we aint kissing" or "****ing"
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
7onriverI f
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Find out why she doesn't want to **** or kiss. Just ask her why don't you want to **** or kiss?
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
Half of these are still trying when she said we wont be ****ing or kissing? Why try again? Just looks annoyingly persistent and needy. Just tell her im dropping you off. And dont talk to her again. A interested girl wont utter those words. Remember your time is ****ing valuable and you have no time for a idiot.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
DONT DO THIS!! CRINGEWORTHY!
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
Um.. if she says that the first time just tell her to leave.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
Just tell her to kick rocks
BackInTheGame78
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Just laugh and work on escalating. Usually they say it more so they don't do anything themselves.
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You will be happier when you are around a woman that has become submissive. The few times I see a major road block to that happening I instantly eject. If that particular woman comes back around you bet your sweet @ss she will be much more submissive the next go round.
Dont forget to understand that if this woman was sexually attracted to you, she would suck your dic on the first date (happily).
Attraction is the needed ingredient to make all of this stuff work with a woman. Without her being SEXUALLY attracted to you, its all a waste of time as it cannot be negotiatied.
Everyone has their own personal preferences as to what they are attracted to and not everyone is attracted to everyone else.
Go find someone that finds you sexually attractive and this game of dating isnt even a fair game anymore.
Dont forget to understand that if this woman was sexually attracted to you, she would suck your dic on the first date (happily).
Attraction is the needed ingredient to make all of this stuff work with a woman. Without her being SEXUALLY attracted to you, its all a waste of time as it cannot be negotiatied.
Everyone has their own personal preferences as to what they are attracted to and not everyone is attracted to everyone else.
Go find someone that finds you sexually attractive and this game of dating isnt even a fair game anymore.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
When she pulls this you smile and say "ok no problem" then immediately begin bringing her home. If you are driving? You turn around and take her home. If you are at a club or restaurant you leave immediately. If she follows you the entire drive home you now treat her as a guy friend. You bust her chops you make fun of her and carry on like she is a person you now have zero i repeat zero interest in.
You drop her off at home and drive away. No see you later no texting no calling no emailing no social media nothing. 100% zero contact. When she reaches out to you. Ignore delete. Nothing.
The only reason a woman would say is if she had to be in control. Do not allow this.
Prettyboy Dee
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You have no game that's all, girls always say that then they end up fvcking lol, it's just a lil tease, playing a lil hard to get, every girl who has ever said that to me I just give a sly smirk then proceed with the night and end up fvcking, you need more confidence and game and stop letting them throw you off......
If a guy cant be confident and smooth enough to laugh something like that off and continue on with his approach then he doesnt deserve to get his d!ck wet.
I swear I think some of you guys skipped high school......
If a guy cant be confident and smooth enough to laugh something like that off and continue on with his approach then he doesnt deserve to get his d!ck wet.
I swear I think some of you guys skipped high school......