niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
Ok guys if you are ever plagued with this bull****. And shes says we aint kissing. Or screwing. Tell her ok pack your belongings im dropping you off. Friendzoned avoided and a waste of time avoided.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Best way to handle "we aint kissing" or "****ing"
- Thread starter niceguytoalphamale
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Find out why she doesn't want to **** or kiss. Just ask her why don't you want to **** or kiss?
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
Half of these are still trying when she said we wont be ****ing or kissing? Why try again? Just looks annoyingly persistent and needy. Just tell her im dropping you off. And dont talk to her again. A interested girl wont utter those words. Remember your time is ****ing valuable and you have no time for a idiot.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
DONT DO THIS!! CRINGEWORTHY!
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
Um.. if she says that the first time just tell her to leave.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
Just tell her to kick rocks
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Just laugh and work on escalating. Usually they say it more so they don't do anything themselves.
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You will be happier when you are around a woman that has become submissive. The few times I see a major road block to that happening I instantly eject. If that particular woman comes back around you bet your sweet @ss she will be much more submissive the next go round.
Dont forget to understand that if this woman was sexually attracted to you, she would suck your dic on the first date (happily).
Attraction is the needed ingredient to make all of this stuff work with a woman. Without her being SEXUALLY attracted to you, its all a waste of time as it cannot be negotiatied.
Everyone has their own personal preferences as to what they are attracted to and not everyone is attracted to everyone else.
Go find someone that finds you sexually attractive and this game of dating isnt even a fair game anymore.
Dont forget to understand that if this woman was sexually attracted to you, she would suck your dic on the first date (happily).
Attraction is the needed ingredient to make all of this stuff work with a woman. Without her being SEXUALLY attracted to you, its all a waste of time as it cannot be negotiatied.
Everyone has their own personal preferences as to what they are attracted to and not everyone is attracted to everyone else.
Go find someone that finds you sexually attractive and this game of dating isnt even a fair game anymore.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
When she pulls this you smile and say "ok no problem" then immediately begin bringing her home. If you are driving? You turn around and take her home. If you are at a club or restaurant you leave immediately. If she follows you the entire drive home you now treat her as a guy friend. You bust her chops you make fun of her and carry on like she is a person you now have zero i repeat zero interest in.
You drop her off at home and drive away. No see you later no texting no calling no emailing no social media nothing. 100% zero contact. When she reaches out to you. Ignore delete. Nothing.
The only reason a woman would say is if she had to be in control. Do not allow this.
Prettyboy Dee
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You have no game that's all, girls always say that then they end up fvcking lol, it's just a lil tease, playing a lil hard to get, every girl who has ever said that to me I just give a sly smirk then proceed with the night and end up fvcking, you need more confidence and game and stop letting them throw you off......
If a guy cant be confident and smooth enough to laugh something like that off and continue on with his approach then he doesnt deserve to get his d!ck wet.
I swear I think some of you guys skipped high school......
If a guy cant be confident and smooth enough to laugh something like that off and continue on with his approach then he doesnt deserve to get his d!ck wet.
I swear I think some of you guys skipped high school......