"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Best way to handle "we aint kissing" or "****ing"

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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zinc4

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Tell her you are feeling too lazy for sex then 5 to 10 mins try to kino/kiss her. If multiple hard rejections tell her to leave.
 

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Half of these are still trying when she said we wont be ****ing or kissing? Why try again? Just looks annoyingly persistent and needy. Just tell her im dropping you off. And dont talk to her again. A interested girl wont utter those words. Remember your time is ****ing valuable and you have no time for a idiot.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You will be happier when you are around a woman that has become submissive. The few times I see a major road block to that happening I instantly eject. If that particular woman comes back around you bet your sweet @ss she will be much more submissive the next go round.

Dont forget to understand that if this woman was sexually attracted to you, she would suck your dic on the first date (happily).

Attraction is the needed ingredient to make all of this stuff work with a woman. Without her being SEXUALLY attracted to you, its all a waste of time as it cannot be negotiatied.

Everyone has their own personal preferences as to what they are attracted to and not everyone is attracted to everyone else.

Go find someone that finds you sexually attractive and this game of dating isnt even a fair game anymore.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ok guys if you are ever plagued with this bull****. And shes says we aint kissing. Or screwing. Tell her ok pack your belongings im dropping you off. Friendzoned avoided and a waste of time avoided.
When she pulls this you smile and say "ok no problem" then immediately begin bringing her home. If you are driving? You turn around and take her home. If you are at a club or restaurant you leave immediately. If she follows you the entire drive home you now treat her as a guy friend. You bust her chops you make fun of her and carry on like she is a person you now have zero i repeat zero interest in.

You drop her off at home and drive away. No see you later no texting no calling no emailing no social media nothing. 100% zero contact. When she reaches out to you. Ignore delete. Nothing.

The only reason a woman would say is if she had to be in control. Do not allow this.
 

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You have no game that's all, girls always say that then they end up fvcking lol, it's just a lil tease, playing a lil hard to get, every girl who has ever said that to me I just give a sly smirk then proceed with the night and end up fvcking, you need more confidence and game and stop letting them throw you off......

If a guy cant be confident and smooth enough to laugh something like that off and continue on with his approach then he doesnt deserve to get his d!ck wet.

I swear I think some of you guys skipped high school......
 
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