niceguytoalphamale
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Ok guys if you are ever plagued with this bull****. And shes says we aint kissing. Or screwing. Tell her ok pack your belongings im dropping you off. Friendzoned avoided and a waste of time avoided.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Best way to handle "we aint kissing" or "****ing"
- Thread starter niceguytoalphamale
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
7onriverI f
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Find out why she doesn't want to **** or kiss. Just ask her why don't you want to **** or kiss?
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
Half of these are still trying when she said we wont be ****ing or kissing? Why try again? Just looks annoyingly persistent and needy. Just tell her im dropping you off. And dont talk to her again. A interested girl wont utter those words. Remember your time is ****ing valuable and you have no time for a idiot.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
DONT DO THIS!! CRINGEWORTHY!
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
Um.. if she says that the first time just tell her to leave.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
Just tell her to kick rocks
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Just laugh and work on escalating. Usually they say it more so they don't do anything themselves.
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You will be happier when you are around a woman that has become submissive. The few times I see a major road block to that happening I instantly eject. If that particular woman comes back around you bet your sweet @ss she will be much more submissive the next go round.
Dont forget to understand that if this woman was sexually attracted to you, she would suck your dic on the first date (happily).
Attraction is the needed ingredient to make all of this stuff work with a woman. Without her being SEXUALLY attracted to you, its all a waste of time as it cannot be negotiatied.
Everyone has their own personal preferences as to what they are attracted to and not everyone is attracted to everyone else.
Go find someone that finds you sexually attractive and this game of dating isnt even a fair game anymore.
Dont forget to understand that if this woman was sexually attracted to you, she would suck your dic on the first date (happily).
Attraction is the needed ingredient to make all of this stuff work with a woman. Without her being SEXUALLY attracted to you, its all a waste of time as it cannot be negotiatied.
Everyone has their own personal preferences as to what they are attracted to and not everyone is attracted to everyone else.
Go find someone that finds you sexually attractive and this game of dating isnt even a fair game anymore.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
When she pulls this you smile and say "ok no problem" then immediately begin bringing her home. If you are driving? You turn around and take her home. If you are at a club or restaurant you leave immediately. If she follows you the entire drive home you now treat her as a guy friend. You bust her chops you make fun of her and carry on like she is a person you now have zero i repeat zero interest in.
You drop her off at home and drive away. No see you later no texting no calling no emailing no social media nothing. 100% zero contact. When she reaches out to you. Ignore delete. Nothing.
The only reason a woman would say is if she had to be in control. Do not allow this.
Prettyboy Dee
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You have no game that's all, girls always say that then they end up fvcking lol, it's just a lil tease, playing a lil hard to get, every girl who has ever said that to me I just give a sly smirk then proceed with the night and end up fvcking, you need more confidence and game and stop letting them throw you off......
If a guy cant be confident and smooth enough to laugh something like that off and continue on with his approach then he doesnt deserve to get his d!ck wet.
I swear I think some of you guys skipped high school......
If a guy cant be confident and smooth enough to laugh something like that off and continue on with his approach then he doesnt deserve to get his d!ck wet.
I swear I think some of you guys skipped high school......