ladym
Don Juan
Ok so what you're saying is he's not that interested in me if he's making me do all the work...I thought as much...damn
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What! A double pen! I beg your pardon! What on earth are you insinuating? Are you accusing the lady of being a cheapside ho? Are you suggesting that the lady should try and accumulate as many objects as possible and stretch herself to the ends of the earth? Sire, that is very rude of you. How very dare you...j0n024 said:Really....weird usually the guy takes over how pathetic that your the on in charge(pathetic as guy's doing you). I agree with most of the guy's here just be very vocal and that should get him aroused pretty fast, what you can do is maybe experiment with different things like my fav with my girl is double pen (guy's d1ck and your vib in same hole) or roleplay with costumes maybe take a tour of the house your going to be in have sex in every room! If the guy is not dominant and taking charge then you take charge and show him what you can do and if you want let him unload onto you (Preference).....but other then that if the guy isnt that interested in you except for an easy lay then no matter what yo do it wont matter .
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Although you're young, dumb and full of bullsh!t, This-brett012 said:I think you're an idiot if you compliment him on how big he is. What if he's not big? Then he'll think he's the sh!t for a stupid reason. Not to mention that cancels out the whole "size doesn't matter" thing. Just let him know that you like how he feels, and what's going on is good.
MacAvoy said:The only talking you should be doing is to tell him how amazing he is and how big he is. I personally get turned on by women talking during sex and I'll even ask her to tell me things.
But you basically got it right head, head, head, moan, moan, moan, take it wherever & then sleep.
There are no special fancy moves. Or just ask him what position he likes best, ask him to do it doggy style once in a while.
I wasn't trying to be cheeky, you missed my original point, I didn't ask if you were good, thats irrelevant, there isn't really such thing as bad head, the point is do it lots. A man never gets tired of it. A women should start off giving him head everytime she fvcks him.
Jump in my bed!ladym said:I want to perfect my technique...and yes I'm female...
What can I do to make myself the goddess I so wish to be? Any tips?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.