ladym
Don Juan
Ok so what you're saying is he's not that interested in me if he's making me do all the work...I thought as much...damn
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Best thing a woman can do in bed...
- Thread starter ladym
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
Sure, you can be better in bed for guys. But, what are you getting out of it? You say you are the one taking charge and being dominate. So, are you sexually satisfied with guys who don't know how to satisfy you? You being better in bed is not gonna make the guy better in bed.
Men like to be dominated by the woman once in awhile. But, it is out of your nature. Women = submissive. Men = Dominate. You're playing the wrong role.
Men like to be dominated by the woman once in awhile. But, it is out of your nature. Women = submissive. Men = Dominate. You're playing the wrong role.
crashbutnotburn
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I agree with Francisco. For a guy, sex is almost always good, as long as he gets off. So just STFU afterwards and go to sleep. Don't ask him what he's thinking, don't ask him if he liked it. Don't talk to him and make him try to stay awake. Seriously.
Better yet, kiss him on the forehead, say it was great, and call yourself a taxi. I don't mean to be a prick but this is what guys REALLY want from a hot girl. Even from a not-so-hot girl.
Better yet, kiss him on the forehead, say it was great, and call yourself a taxi. I don't mean to be a prick but this is what guys REALLY want from a hot girl. Even from a not-so-hot girl.
ladym
Don Juan
Hey I don't want him to be better...I want to bag this one! He's pretty good as he is...
What! A double pen! I beg your pardon! What on earth are you insinuating? Are you accusing the lady of being a cheapside ho? Are you suggesting that the lady should try and accumulate as many objects as possible and stretch herself to the ends of the earth? Sire, that is very rude of you. How very dare you...j0n024 said:
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
ladym
Don Juan
Regarding the taxi thing...I've always left his place & in the morning & texts asking where I am?! He wants sex then too & I'm not there... So I think in future I'm gona stay.
Gangster Of Love
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To quote Gene Simmons, the best thing a woman can do is "leave", after the sex.
PrinceBeavis
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......Know what I say?
Keep it real. I think it's horribly lame if a woman is moaning, and faking the whole thing. Total turn-off.
No. I don't really want you to fart either, or moo like a cow.
I want you to be real. Tell me what you want.
I want you to really get off.
I want you to orgasm. ....for real.
I want you quivering in ways and places that you can't ordinarily make quiver.
I want you to be completely enveloped in your own, quivering, orgasmic world.
I want you to be a grinning mass of jelly when we are done.
It's not that I mind you talking when it's over. It's that I want you not to have to need to talk, because you are spent...satiated...
THAT'S what makes me feel like a stud. It's not about any one technique, or gimmick. It's the spirit of things that matter to me.
If you're having a good time, I'M having a good time.
Keep it real. I think it's horribly lame if a woman is moaning, and faking the whole thing. Total turn-off.
No. I don't really want you to fart either, or moo like a cow.
I want you to be real. Tell me what you want.
I want you to really get off.
I want you to orgasm. ....for real.
I want you quivering in ways and places that you can't ordinarily make quiver.
I want you to be completely enveloped in your own, quivering, orgasmic world.
I want you to be a grinning mass of jelly when we are done.
It's not that I mind you talking when it's over. It's that I want you not to have to need to talk, because you are spent...satiated...
THAT'S what makes me feel like a stud. It's not about any one technique, or gimmick. It's the spirit of things that matter to me.
If you're having a good time, I'M having a good time.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
suck dry
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
KarmaSutra
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Although you're young, dumb and full of bullsh!t, This-brett012 said:
MacAvoy said:
-is absolutely great advice. It makes no difference if he's hung like an infant, the fact is we do love to hear from a woman how enthused we make her.
I would add that eye contact and thrashing around your hair is a big turn on as well.
tripleplay
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Jump in my bed!ladym said:
My Name is Nobody
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Don't you hate it when girls just lay there and barely make a sound and make you do all the work? The last girl I was with was like that.
Maybe that's why her husband left her.
Just be the opposite of that and you're good.
Maybe that's why her husband left her.
Just be the opposite of that and you're good.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
LostAndConfused
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Yeah guys, sex is definitely a job. You fail it if you don't pleasure your woman.
/sarcasm (lol)
/sarcasm (lol)
bukowski_merit
Master Don Juan
i agree with reaction! it has to be legit though...
my 2 favorite lays both would orgasm almost non stop from when i put it in to finish (even if that was 40 minutes later)
these types of women are truely rare and make them stick out in my head as the best. notice how i said nothing about their performance? they just let me do the work and their body did the shaking... that was good enough...
who do i consider the worst? the women who just lay there like i don't know what i'm doing... as if they're just having sex to pass time or as an emotional connection... no moans... no reactions... fuk that! i lay a girl like that - i don't care what she looks like or how we bond - i drop her quick.
my 2 favorite lays both would orgasm almost non stop from when i put it in to finish (even if that was 40 minutes later)
these types of women are truely rare and make them stick out in my head as the best. notice how i said nothing about their performance? they just let me do the work and their body did the shaking... that was good enough...
who do i consider the worst? the women who just lay there like i don't know what i'm doing... as if they're just having sex to pass time or as an emotional connection... no moans... no reactions... fuk that! i lay a girl like that - i don't care what she looks like or how we bond - i drop her quick.
bukowski_merit
Master Don Juan
double post
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.