ladym
Don Juan
Ok so what you're saying is he's not that interested in me if he's making me do all the work...I thought as much...damn
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What! A double pen! I beg your pardon! What on earth are you insinuating? Are you accusing the lady of being a cheapside ho? Are you suggesting that the lady should try and accumulate as many objects as possible and stretch herself to the ends of the earth? Sire, that is very rude of you. How very dare you...j0n024 said:Really....weird usually the guy takes over how pathetic that your the on in charge(pathetic as guy's doing you). I agree with most of the guy's here just be very vocal and that should get him aroused pretty fast, what you can do is maybe experiment with different things like my fav with my girl is double pen (guy's d1ck and your vib in same hole) or roleplay with costumes maybe take a tour of the house your going to be in have sex in every room! If the guy is not dominant and taking charge then you take charge and show him what you can do and if you want let him unload onto you (Preference).....but other then that if the guy isnt that interested in you except for an easy lay then no matter what yo do it wont matter .
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Although you're young, dumb and full of bullsh!t, This-brett012 said:I think you're an idiot if you compliment him on how big he is. What if he's not big? Then he'll think he's the sh!t for a stupid reason. Not to mention that cancels out the whole "size doesn't matter" thing. Just let him know that you like how he feels, and what's going on is good.
MacAvoy said:The only talking you should be doing is to tell him how amazing he is and how big he is. I personally get turned on by women talking during sex and I'll even ask her to tell me things.
But you basically got it right head, head, head, moan, moan, moan, take it wherever & then sleep.
There are no special fancy moves. Or just ask him what position he likes best, ask him to do it doggy style once in a while.
I wasn't trying to be cheeky, you missed my original point, I didn't ask if you were good, thats irrelevant, there isn't really such thing as bad head, the point is do it lots. A man never gets tired of it. A women should start off giving him head everytime she fvcks him.
Jump in my bed!ladym said:I want to perfect my technique...and yes I'm female...
What can I do to make myself the goddess I so wish to be? Any tips?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.