ladym
Don Juan
Ok so what you're saying is he's not that interested in me if he's making me do all the work...I thought as much...damn
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What! A double pen! I beg your pardon! What on earth are you insinuating? Are you accusing the lady of being a cheapside ho? Are you suggesting that the lady should try and accumulate as many objects as possible and stretch herself to the ends of the earth? Sire, that is very rude of you. How very dare you...j0n024 said:Really....weird usually the guy takes over how pathetic that your the on in charge(pathetic as guy's doing you). I agree with most of the guy's here just be very vocal and that should get him aroused pretty fast, what you can do is maybe experiment with different things like my fav with my girl is double pen (guy's d1ck and your vib in same hole) or roleplay with costumes maybe take a tour of the house your going to be in have sex in every room! If the guy is not dominant and taking charge then you take charge and show him what you can do and if you want let him unload onto you (Preference).....but other then that if the guy isnt that interested in you except for an easy lay then no matter what yo do it wont matter .
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Although you're young, dumb and full of bullsh!t, This-brett012 said:I think you're an idiot if you compliment him on how big he is. What if he's not big? Then he'll think he's the sh!t for a stupid reason. Not to mention that cancels out the whole "size doesn't matter" thing. Just let him know that you like how he feels, and what's going on is good.
MacAvoy said:The only talking you should be doing is to tell him how amazing he is and how big he is. I personally get turned on by women talking during sex and I'll even ask her to tell me things.
But you basically got it right head, head, head, moan, moan, moan, take it wherever & then sleep.
There are no special fancy moves. Or just ask him what position he likes best, ask him to do it doggy style once in a while.
I wasn't trying to be cheeky, you missed my original point, I didn't ask if you were good, thats irrelevant, there isn't really such thing as bad head, the point is do it lots. A man never gets tired of it. A women should start off giving him head everytime she fvcks him.
Jump in my bed!ladym said:I want to perfect my technique...and yes I'm female...
What can I do to make myself the goddess I so wish to be? Any tips?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.