"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ladym

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Ok so what you're saying is he's not that interested in me if he's making me do all the work...I thought as much...damn
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Sure, you can be better in bed for guys. But, what are you getting out of it? You say you are the one taking charge and being dominate. So, are you sexually satisfied with guys who don't know how to satisfy you? You being better in bed is not gonna make the guy better in bed.

Men like to be dominated by the woman once in awhile. But, it is out of your nature. Women = submissive. Men = Dominate. You're playing the wrong role.
 

crashbutnotburn

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I agree with Francisco. For a guy, sex is almost always good, as long as he gets off. So just STFU afterwards and go to sleep. Don't ask him what he's thinking, don't ask him if he liked it. Don't talk to him and make him try to stay awake. Seriously.

Better yet, kiss him on the forehead, say it was great, and call yourself a taxi. I don't mean to be a prick but this is what guys REALLY want from a hot girl. Even from a not-so-hot girl.
 

ladym

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Hey I don't want him to be better...I want to bag this one! He's pretty good as he is...
 

ducaro

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j0n024 said:
Really....weird usually the guy takes over how pathetic that your the on in charge(pathetic as guy's doing you). I agree with most of the guy's here just be very vocal and that should get him aroused pretty fast, what you can do is maybe experiment with different things like my fav with my girl is double pen (guy's d1ck and your vib in same hole) or roleplay with costumes maybe take a tour of the house your going to be in have sex in every room! If the guy is not dominant and taking charge then you take charge and show him what you can do and if you want let him unload onto you (Preference).....but other then that if the guy isnt that interested in you except for an easy lay then no matter what yo do it wont matter .
What! A double pen! I beg your pardon! What on earth are you insinuating? Are you accusing the lady of being a cheapside ho? Are you suggesting that the lady should try and accumulate as many objects as possible and stretch herself to the ends of the earth? Sire, that is very rude of you. How very dare you...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Regarding the taxi thing...I've always left his place & in the morning & texts asking where I am?! He wants sex then too & I'm not there... So I think in future I'm gona stay.
 

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Rough, hard, screaming.

Dirty. Nasty. Filthy.

But most of all that is up to him to initiate.

But you can help by being as nasty as possible.
 

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To quote Gene Simmons, the best thing a woman can do is "leave", after the sex.
 

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......Know what I say?

Keep it real. I think it's horribly lame if a woman is moaning, and faking the whole thing. Total turn-off.

No. I don't really want you to fart either, or moo like a cow.

I want you to be real. Tell me what you want.

I want you to really get off.

I want you to orgasm. ....for real.

I want you quivering in ways and places that you can't ordinarily make quiver.

I want you to be completely enveloped in your own, quivering, orgasmic world.

I want you to be a grinning mass of jelly when we are done.

It's not that I mind you talking when it's over. It's that I want you not to have to need to talk, because you are spent...satiated...

THAT'S what makes me feel like a stud. It's not about any one technique, or gimmick. It's the spirit of things that matter to me.

If you're having a good time, I'M having a good time.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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brett012 said:
I think you're an idiot if you compliment him on how big he is. What if he's not big? Then he'll think he's the sh!t for a stupid reason. Not to mention that cancels out the whole "size doesn't matter" thing. Just let him know that you like how he feels, and what's going on is good.
Although you're young, dumb and full of bullsh!t, This-

MacAvoy said:
The only talking you should be doing is to tell him how amazing he is and how big he is. I personally get turned on by women talking during sex and I'll even ask her to tell me things.

But you basically got it right head, head, head, moan, moan, moan, take it wherever & then sleep.

There are no special fancy moves. Or just ask him what position he likes best, ask him to do it doggy style once in a while.

I wasn't trying to be cheeky, you missed my original point, I didn't ask if you were good, thats irrelevant, there isn't really such thing as bad head, the point is do it lots. A man never gets tired of it. A women should start off giving him head everytime she fvcks him.

-is absolutely great advice. It makes no difference if he's hung like an infant, the fact is we do love to hear from a woman how enthused we make her.

I would add that eye contact and thrashing around your hair is a big turn on as well.
 

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ladym said:
I want to perfect my technique...and yes I'm female...
What can I do to make myself the goddess I so wish to be? Any tips?
Jump in my bed!
 
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Don't you hate it when girls just lay there and barely make a sound and make you do all the work? The last girl I was with was like that.
Maybe that's why her husband left her.

Just be the opposite of that and you're good.
 

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(PrinceBeavis is so SWEET. Couldn't you just eat him up? What a LOVELY man!!!)


Just get dirty, b*tch.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DrD77

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i want to see a girl come like that chick cytherea or whatever. that would be hot in bed. can u do that?
 

bukowski_merit

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i agree with reaction! it has to be legit though...

my 2 favorite lays both would orgasm almost non stop from when i put it in to finish (even if that was 40 minutes later)

these types of women are truely rare and make them stick out in my head as the best. notice how i said nothing about their performance? they just let me do the work and their body did the shaking... that was good enough...

who do i consider the worst? the women who just lay there like i don't know what i'm doing... as if they're just having sex to pass time or as an emotional connection... no moans... no reactions... fuk that! i lay a girl like that - i don't care what she looks like or how we bond - i drop her quick.
 

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Ride him good and hard.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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