"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Best questions you use on OLD prior to date?

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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parkthebus

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"Will you meet me for a drink this Friday at 7 p.m. at the rusty nail on 5th and main?"

This is the only question that I'll ever personally ask and I 99.9% of the time ask it on the very first email.
Hows the response rate?
 

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How's the site treating you so far?

We should grab a drink sometime and talk more in person, you game?

Once they say yes tell them to give you their number.

3 or 4 messages tops before you get the number.

I've tried Espi's method, it's not worked for me.
 
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I know you are saying just ask few questions but if the woman doesnt really seem interested, i have tried in the past and they make excuse or wont reply. So I dont know i guess i will try the few messages
 

marmel75

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Spit or swallow?

Do you do anal?

Lmfao but only sort of kidding...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yewki

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"Will you meet me for a drink this Friday at 7 p.m. at the rusty nail on 5th and main?"

This is the only question that I'll ever personally ask and I 99.9% of the time ask it on the very first email.
Ok so I actually decided to give this line a shot and so far it's working, but the problem now is I have no idea where the rusy nail on 5th and main is. I've tried google mapping it but there isn't even a 5th and main in my city. This girl I'm talking to is trying to figure out where this place is, heck I don't even know. What do I do??
 
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