Shootin4Dreams
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What do u guys have most success with? For routine
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Best questions you use on OLD prior to date?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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We should grab a drink sometime and talk more in person, you game?
Once they say yes tell them to give you their number.
3 or 4 messages tops before you get the number.
I've tried Espi's method, it's not worked for me.
We should grab a drink sometime and talk more in person, you game?
Once they say yes tell them to give you their number.
3 or 4 messages tops before you get the number.
I've tried Espi's method, it's not worked for me.
Shootin4Dreams
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I know you are saying just ask few questions but if the woman doesnt really seem interested, i have tried in the past and they make excuse or wont reply. So I dont know i guess i will try the few messages
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Ok so I actually decided to give this line a shot and so far it's working, but the problem now is I have no idea where the rusy nail on 5th and main is. I've tried google mapping it but there isn't even a 5th and main in my city. This girl I'm talking to is trying to figure out where this place is, heck I don't even know. What do I do??