"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Best questions you use on OLD prior to date?

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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parkthebus

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"Will you meet me for a drink this Friday at 7 p.m. at the rusty nail on 5th and main?"

This is the only question that I'll ever personally ask and I 99.9% of the time ask it on the very first email.
Hows the response rate?
 

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How's the site treating you so far?

We should grab a drink sometime and talk more in person, you game?

Once they say yes tell them to give you their number.

3 or 4 messages tops before you get the number.

I've tried Espi's method, it's not worked for me.
 
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I know you are saying just ask few questions but if the woman doesnt really seem interested, i have tried in the past and they make excuse or wont reply. So I dont know i guess i will try the few messages
 

marmel75

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Spit or swallow?

Do you do anal?

Lmfao but only sort of kidding...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yewki

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"Will you meet me for a drink this Friday at 7 p.m. at the rusty nail on 5th and main?"

This is the only question that I'll ever personally ask and I 99.9% of the time ask it on the very first email.
Ok so I actually decided to give this line a shot and so far it's working, but the problem now is I have no idea where the rusy nail on 5th and main is. I've tried google mapping it but there isn't even a 5th and main in my city. This girl I'm talking to is trying to figure out where this place is, heck I don't even know. What do I do??
 
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