Shootin4Dreams
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What do u guys have most success with? For routine
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Best questions you use on OLD prior to date?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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We should grab a drink sometime and talk more in person, you game?
Once they say yes tell them to give you their number.
3 or 4 messages tops before you get the number.
I've tried Espi's method, it's not worked for me.
We should grab a drink sometime and talk more in person, you game?
Once they say yes tell them to give you their number.
3 or 4 messages tops before you get the number.
I've tried Espi's method, it's not worked for me.
Shootin4Dreams
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I know you are saying just ask few questions but if the woman doesnt really seem interested, i have tried in the past and they make excuse or wont reply. So I dont know i guess i will try the few messages
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Ok so I actually decided to give this line a shot and so far it's working, but the problem now is I have no idea where the rusy nail on 5th and main is. I've tried google mapping it but there isn't even a 5th and main in my city. This girl I'm talking to is trying to figure out where this place is, heck I don't even know. What do I do??