Shootin4Dreams
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What do u guys have most success with? For routine
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Best questions you use on OLD prior to date?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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We should grab a drink sometime and talk more in person, you game?
Once they say yes tell them to give you their number.
3 or 4 messages tops before you get the number.
I've tried Espi's method, it's not worked for me.
We should grab a drink sometime and talk more in person, you game?
Once they say yes tell them to give you their number.
3 or 4 messages tops before you get the number.
I've tried Espi's method, it's not worked for me.
Shootin4Dreams
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I know you are saying just ask few questions but if the woman doesnt really seem interested, i have tried in the past and they make excuse or wont reply. So I dont know i guess i will try the few messages
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Ok so I actually decided to give this line a shot and so far it's working, but the problem now is I have no idea where the rusy nail on 5th and main is. I've tried google mapping it but there isn't even a 5th and main in my city. This girl I'm talking to is trying to figure out where this place is, heck I don't even know. What do I do??