I can't say I had had lots of hot women in my life. So recently when I did pull one I felt uncomfortable walking down the street with one. Everyone is also checking us out because the fact she is hot. How can I can become more comfortable?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Being Uncomfortable With A Hot Woman
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Tictac
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Count your blessings and compliment yourself.
As this goes under 'high class problems', you really so just want to worry about something, don't you.
So cut that sh*t out.
As this goes under 'high class problems', you really so just want to worry about something, don't you.
So cut that sh*t out.
SgtSplacker
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I can be pretty aggressive at times so it really bothers me when people are checking out my girl.
I don't take a hot girl anywhere there are too many people just so I can enjoy my night peacefully.
Otherwise i'm thinking about ripping someones head off every 15 minutes. And heaven forbid she is flirty too. Odds are that night would end early in that case.
I don't take a hot girl anywhere there are too many people just so I can enjoy my night peacefully.
Otherwise i'm thinking about ripping someones head off every 15 minutes. And heaven forbid she is flirty too. Odds are that night would end early in that case.
zekko
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The only way to get more comfortable being with how women is to be with more hot women. When you are with a hot woman, people are going to be looking at her. I agree with SgtSplacker, it's best not to take a hot woman to a place where there are too many people. And especially not a place where there is alcohol, because guys will be hitting on her left and right.
Better to avoid those places, IMO, unless you want to invite that kind of attention onto her. For one thing, it will make her look like the prize if guys are constantly busting in on you to hit on her. And like Splacker says, if you have a temper, you might get into a tussle or two.
Better to avoid those places, IMO, unless you want to invite that kind of attention onto her. For one thing, it will make her look like the prize if guys are constantly busting in on you to hit on her. And like Splacker says, if you have a temper, you might get into a tussle or two.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
BetterCallSaul
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Something about a pedestal and pu$$y....hmmm...what was it?
I am average to slightly above average looking guy, not fat and good sense of fashion. And a reasonable status (in my mind anyway). If I am chasing fat chicks or average looking poorly dressed women, I am selling myself short. In fact one or twice when with non hot chicks guys (random strangers) have shown disapproval as if to say 'why are hanging out with this chick?' So as a result its hot chicks or no sex whatsoever. Depressing.Tictac said:
Tictac
Banned
Work on your own self-confidence mango.
That's the issue, not the woman
Who gives a f*ck if some guy (in your own mind) has 'shown disapproval'?
That's the issue, not the woman
Who gives a f*ck if some guy (in your own mind) has 'shown disapproval'?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
gravityeyelids
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Get used to being around good looking girls. Get a few cute girls that are just friends and hang out with them (and realize that you're NOT going to hookup with them). It'll bring them off the pedestal and you'll see their flaws and realize they're just girls.
The obvious advice is to just go bang hot girls....but that's much much easier said then done.
The obvious advice is to just go bang hot girls....but that's much much easier said then done.
