I can't say I had had lots of hot women in my life. So recently when I did pull one I felt uncomfortable walking down the street with one. Everyone is also checking us out because the fact she is hot. How can I can become more comfortable?
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Being Uncomfortable With A Hot Woman
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Tictac
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Count your blessings and compliment yourself.
As this goes under 'high class problems', you really so just want to worry about something, don't you.
So cut that sh*t out.
As this goes under 'high class problems', you really so just want to worry about something, don't you.
So cut that sh*t out.
SgtSplacker
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I can be pretty aggressive at times so it really bothers me when people are checking out my girl.
I don't take a hot girl anywhere there are too many people just so I can enjoy my night peacefully.
Otherwise i'm thinking about ripping someones head off every 15 minutes. And heaven forbid she is flirty too. Odds are that night would end early in that case.
I don't take a hot girl anywhere there are too many people just so I can enjoy my night peacefully.
Otherwise i'm thinking about ripping someones head off every 15 minutes. And heaven forbid she is flirty too. Odds are that night would end early in that case.
zekko
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The only way to get more comfortable being with how women is to be with more hot women. When you are with a hot woman, people are going to be looking at her. I agree with SgtSplacker, it's best not to take a hot woman to a place where there are too many people. And especially not a place where there is alcohol, because guys will be hitting on her left and right.
Better to avoid those places, IMO, unless you want to invite that kind of attention onto her. For one thing, it will make her look like the prize if guys are constantly busting in on you to hit on her. And like Splacker says, if you have a temper, you might get into a tussle or two.
Better to avoid those places, IMO, unless you want to invite that kind of attention onto her. For one thing, it will make her look like the prize if guys are constantly busting in on you to hit on her. And like Splacker says, if you have a temper, you might get into a tussle or two.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
BetterCallSaul
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Something about a pedestal and pu$$y....hmmm...what was it?
I am average to slightly above average looking guy, not fat and good sense of fashion. And a reasonable status (in my mind anyway). If I am chasing fat chicks or average looking poorly dressed women, I am selling myself short. In fact one or twice when with non hot chicks guys (random strangers) have shown disapproval as if to say 'why are hanging out with this chick?' So as a result its hot chicks or no sex whatsoever. Depressing.Tictac said:
Tictac
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Work on your own self-confidence mango.
That's the issue, not the woman
Who gives a f*ck if some guy (in your own mind) has 'shown disapproval'?
That's the issue, not the woman
Who gives a f*ck if some guy (in your own mind) has 'shown disapproval'?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
gravityeyelids
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Get used to being around good looking girls. Get a few cute girls that are just friends and hang out with them (and realize that you're NOT going to hookup with them). It'll bring them off the pedestal and you'll see their flaws and realize they're just girls.
The obvious advice is to just go bang hot girls....but that's much much easier said then done.
The obvious advice is to just go bang hot girls....but that's much much easier said then done.
