“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Being Uncomfortable With A Hot Woman

mangotot

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I can't say I had had lots of hot women in my life. So recently when I did pull one I felt uncomfortable walking down the street with one. Everyone is also checking us out because the fact she is hot. How can I can become more comfortable?
 

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Count your blessings and compliment yourself.

As this goes under 'high class problems', you really so just want to worry about something, don't you.

So cut that sh*t out.
 

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I can be pretty aggressive at times so it really bothers me when people are checking out my girl.

I don't take a hot girl anywhere there are too many people just so I can enjoy my night peacefully.

Otherwise i'm thinking about ripping someones head off every 15 minutes. And heaven forbid she is flirty too. Odds are that night would end early in that case.
 

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The only way to get more comfortable being with how women is to be with more hot women. When you are with a hot woman, people are going to be looking at her. I agree with SgtSplacker, it's best not to take a hot woman to a place where there are too many people. And especially not a place where there is alcohol, because guys will be hitting on her left and right.

Better to avoid those places, IMO, unless you want to invite that kind of attention onto her. For one thing, it will make her look like the prize if guys are constantly busting in on you to hit on her. And like Splacker says, if you have a temper, you might get into a tussle or two.
 

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I used to have this same problem first year college. Literally just treat her like she is a flat 7. Your actions will sync up with your mind and it works
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Something about a pedestal and pu$$y....hmmm...what was it?
 

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Psych yourself out. That's key. I like to remind myself that every now and then, even hot girls have explosive diarrhea.

Get some other options too, so it doesn't matter if she winds up leaving.
 

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It's a slippery road back to AFC-dom. Watch yourself.
 

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Tictac said:
Count your blessings and compliment yourself.

As this goes under 'high class problems', you really so just want to worry about something, don't you.

So cut that sh*t out.
I am average to slightly above average looking guy, not fat and good sense of fashion. And a reasonable status (in my mind anyway). If I am chasing fat chicks or average looking poorly dressed women, I am selling myself short. In fact one or twice when with non hot chicks guys (random strangers) have shown disapproval as if to say 'why are hanging out with this chick?' So as a result its hot chicks or no sex whatsoever. Depressing.
 

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Get used to being around good looking girls. Get a few cute girls that are just friends and hang out with them (and realize that you're NOT going to hookup with them). It'll bring them off the pedestal and you'll see their flaws and realize they're just girls.

The obvious advice is to just go bang hot girls....but that's much much easier said then done.
 

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mangotot said:
I can't say I had had lots of hot women in my life. So recently when I did pull one I felt uncomfortable walking down the street with one. Everyone is also checking us out because the fact she is hot. How can I can become more comfortable?
Spend more time with hot women! Hit up your local $trip club to become more comfortable around hot girls.
 
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