"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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BECOMING A KING: Getting girls to chase you - Part 2 (GAME TO THE NEXT LEVEL)

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Women are becoming crazier. The general public is becoming more sheep-like. Masculinity is relevant as ever. Leaders still need to eventually become un-silent.

Here's a BUMP for 2020.
 

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Just read it again. This is core manhood.
Seems to be not realistic. I would guess building a ****ing kingdom is very very hard.

He says>
-- Very few men have any clue about how to give off the right kind of vibe or non-verbal communication that would make a woman much more receptive to their approaches.
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Translation: Very few men can truelly be magical.
Yes right, very realistic.

And then this, really?:
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I understand what you are talking about Sapphire because I gone through the same thing with women.

I'm 6'2 inches tall, muscular but lean, and in terms of looks I've had several people (including strangers) tell me I should get into modeling and I remember a girl asking me to strip at her mother's birthday party (I don't do that stripping sh*t, by the way).

There is a good discussion on this called "Too Good Looking to get women" or something like that in the Archives section of the forum. I have a response to this subject on that thread.
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Luxury problems of a King.

Superman gives advice how to create your Kingdom. Right. :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Seems to be not realistic. I would guess building a ****ing kingdom is very very hard.

He says>
-- Very few men have any clue about how to give off the right kind of vibe or non-verbal communication that would make a woman much more receptive to their approaches.
__

Translation: Very few men can truelly be magical.
Yes right, very realistic.

And then this, really?:
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I understand what you are talking about Sapphire because I gone through the same thing with women.

I'm 6'2 inches tall, muscular but lean, and in terms of looks I've had several people (including strangers) tell me I should get into modeling and I remember a girl asking me to strip at her mother's birthday party (I don't do that stripping sh*t, by the way).

There is a good discussion on this called "Too Good Looking to get women" or something like that in the Archives section of the forum. I have a response to this subject on that thread.
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Luxury problems of a King.

Superman gives advice how to create your Kingdom. Right. :)
WTF is a kingdom? If it's simply a life worth living with a business of your own, or a career that provides enough to enjoy your life then that's one thing.

If a kingdom is building this extensive life, with a business or businesses of your own,, where you have dozen to 100's of people working in your hierarchies or above, 99.5% of men won't achieve this...
 

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WTF is a kingdom? If it's simply a life worth living with a business of your own, or a career that provides enough to enjoy your life then that's one thing.

If a kingdom is building this extensive life, with a business or businesses of your own,, where you have dozen to 100's of people working in your hierarchies or above, 99.5% of men won't achieve this...
Never use the word kingdom if you don't mean it I guess regarding the thread starter.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Need post compressed into smaller form, saying too much usually means one doesnt have much to say.

Complexity is the refuge of the scoundrel.
 

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Never use the word kingdom if you don't mean it I guess regarding the thread starter.
I've never cared for this PUA idea of telling yourself you're a king. Seems like the height of self delusion (which is another PUA idea, I guess). Would you honestly want to hang around someone who calls himself a king? Newsflash: You're not a king.
 

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I've never cared for this PUA idea of telling yourself you're a king. Seems like the height of self delusion (which is another PUA idea, I guess). Would you honestly want to hang around someone who calls himself a king? Newsflash: You're not a king.
"king" title appeals to some women; its the epitome of self confidence.
Let's face it, all "kings" are selfappointed throughout history
 

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I've never cared for this PUA idea of telling yourself you're a king. Seems like the height of self delusion (which is another PUA idea, I guess). Would you honestly want to hang around someone who calls himself a king? Newsflash: You're not a king.
The question is.... king of what? :rofl:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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King of your sphere of influence. It’s simply a useful metaphor for a man who sets his own rules and sets expectations for the people in his life.
 

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King of your sphere of influence. It’s simply a useful metaphor for a man who sets his own rules and sets expectations for the people in his life.
King of your life, is what I figure they mean. If you're a business owner, I guess you can call yourself king of your business. I still think it's ridiculous. Sounds like a massive case of overcompensation to me. But to be honest, there are a lot of PUA metaphors I don't care for.
 

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King of your life, is what I figure they mean. If you're a business owner, I guess you can call yourself king of your business. I still think it's ridiculous. Sounds like a massive case of overcompensation to me. But to be honest, there are a lot of PUA metaphors I don't care for.
The word is just owning it
 

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Is this Alpha-male feel good talk?

Sure. But who cares. It helped me waaay back then and it's nice to read it again even today.

Bump for 2021.
 
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