Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Seems to be not realistic. I would guess building a ****ing kingdom is very very hard.Just read it again. This is core manhood.
Seems to be not realistic. I would guess building a ****ing kingdom is very very hard.Just read it again. This is core manhood.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
it isSeems to be not realistic. I would guess building a ****ing kingdom is very very hard.
WTF is a kingdom? If it's simply a life worth living with a business of your own, or a career that provides enough to enjoy your life then that's one thing.Seems to be not realistic. I would guess building a ****ing kingdom is very very hard.
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-- Very few men have any clue about how to give off the right kind of vibe or non-verbal communication that would make a woman much more receptive to their approaches.
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Translation: Very few men can truelly be magical.
Yes right, very realistic.
And then this, really?:
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I understand what you are talking about Sapphire because I gone through the same thing with women.
I'm 6'2 inches tall, muscular but lean, and in terms of looks I've had several people (including strangers) tell me I should get into modeling and I remember a girl asking me to strip at her mother's birthday party (I don't do that stripping sh*t, by the way).
There is a good discussion on this called "Too Good Looking to get women" or something like that in the Archives section of the forum. I have a response to this subject on that thread.
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Luxury problems of a King.
Superman gives advice how to create your Kingdom. Right.![]()
Never use the word kingdom if you don't mean it I guess regarding the thread starter.WTF is a kingdom? If it's simply a life worth living with a business of your own, or a career that provides enough to enjoy your life then that's one thing.
If a kingdom is building this extensive life, with a business or businesses of your own,, where you have dozen to 100's of people working in your hierarchies or above, 99.5% of men won't achieve this...
Yes a hype train works for some.it is
I respect the grind
okYes a hype train works for some.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
"purpose" around these parts is more realistic.Yes a hype train works for some.
I've never cared for this PUA idea of telling yourself you're a king. Seems like the height of self delusion (which is another PUA idea, I guess). Would you honestly want to hang around someone who calls himself a king? Newsflash: You're not a king.Never use the word kingdom if you don't mean it I guess regarding the thread starter.
"king" title appeals to some women; its the epitome of self confidence.I've never cared for this PUA idea of telling yourself you're a king. Seems like the height of self delusion (which is another PUA idea, I guess). Would you honestly want to hang around someone who calls himself a king? Newsflash: You're not a king.
The question is.... king of what?I've never cared for this PUA idea of telling yourself you're a king. Seems like the height of self delusion (which is another PUA idea, I guess). Would you honestly want to hang around someone who calls himself a king? Newsflash: You're not a king.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
King of your life, is what I figure they mean. If you're a business owner, I guess you can call yourself king of your business. I still think it's ridiculous. Sounds like a massive case of overcompensation to me. But to be honest, there are a lot of PUA metaphors I don't care for.King of your sphere of influence. It’s simply a useful metaphor for a man who sets his own rules and sets expectations for the people in his life.
The word is just owning itKing of your life, is what I figure they mean. If you're a business owner, I guess you can call yourself king of your business. I still think it's ridiculous. Sounds like a massive case of overcompensation to me. But to be honest, there are a lot of PUA metaphors I don't care for.