"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Back on the prowl after 14 month monogamy. Seeking the missing keys

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Well, I don't doubt you've got some social cred and stuff... maybe this is a western broad thing but free lunches will always cost you something in the end.
I mean I’ve worried about that myself but so far I’m ok. Should definitely get tested after two weeks here tho.

mad for the free lunches, it’s just my vibe and form of game. I genuinely do not care if I get laid with these girls or not so I have that edge.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I mean I’ve worried about that myself but so far I’m ok. Should definitely get tested after two weeks here tho.

mad for the free lunches, it’s just my vibe and form of game. I genuinely do not care if I get laid with these girls or not so I have that edge.
I understand that man, but usually when a girl is tossing ***** out, theres a reason behind it. Chicks with any class don't just offer themselves up on a platter. That would be a major red flag for me. I mean you gotta look out for your own health, herpes, aids and hep c are forever. Condoms aren't forcefields, you've gotta be choosey.
 

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I understand that man, but usually when a girl is tossing ***** out, theres a reason behind it. Chicks with any class don't just offer themselves up on a platter. That would be a major red flag for me.
I think you may have some limiting beliefs there. I been with nothing but these types of girls. So far so good.
 

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Out of curiousity, how dangerous would you rate your job?
I’m unemployed. Although I used to do door to door lead generation. And before that I was a home framer.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Maybe because you don't care and have the edge, you are projecting yourself as a man of value, and the females can't help but drop their panties.... Not because they're all infected slvts. Others on here espouse first date lays as a normal thing. I wouldn't be too worried.
Yes I agree. I’ve been a risk taker in my life. That definitely helps
 

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****, currently talking with a cute 22 y.o. Who wants me to use and abuse her as she figures out what she’s looking for with regards to dating. She said she’d pay for the hotel room whenever we meet. Damn.
 

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Went to another girl's house tonight. This time when I realized she was a fatty I just accepted it. No boner and I was out of there in 15 mins. I don't believe in being mean to girls unless it's a kink so I chatted with her a bit. Didn't even tell her I wasn't feeling it. Just said I was tired and we'd have to reschedule.

It feels good having higher standards. Tho I do feel like I'm in limbo now. Can't get hard with the fit girls, can't get hard with the fatties. Maybe I just haven't found my "type" yet. I dunno.

I think it'll just take time. Over time I will see I can get fit girls and I'll ease into it without the anxiety that kills boners.

At least, that's my hope.


One thing is for sure tho: from now on, definitely, ALWAYS gonna be meeting the girls beforehand for a "date" to see if I like them before pitching sex. It'll show I have options which will increase attraction too.
 

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Can't get hard with the fit girls, can't get hard with the fatties. Maybe I just haven't found my "type" yet. I dunno.
It sounds to me that you are tying to force it before you become comfortable with a girl. I think taking more time in your case before sex happens might improve the quality of sex. Part of that comfort will be finding someone that you're compatible with and not just someone with a hole you can stick it in. My $.02
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It sounds to me that you are tying to force it before you become comfortable with a girl. I think taking more time in your case before sex happens might improve the quality of sex. Part of that comfort will be finding someone that you're compatible with and not just someone with a hole you can stick it in. My $.02
Oh for sure. Unfortunately this is is exactly what I did in my early life and what contributed to my celibacy.
 

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Don't sweat it, I do this too all my friends and EVERYONE falls for it. :D

One of my friends was almost frothing at the mouth, he watched it a couple times on the big screen, couldn't understand why my wife and I were ROFL.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Don't sweat it, I do this too all my friends and EVERYONE falls for it. :D

One of my friends was almost frothing at the mouth, he watched it a couple times on the big screen, couldn't understand why my wife and I were ROFL.
I don’t mind trannies tbh. But they often have weird personalities.
 

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I don’t mind trannies tbh. But they often have weird personalities.
Well... I think I may have found your issue.


Probably a lot of your circle of women are ugly ASF or maybe trannies are your type.
 

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Well... I think I may have found your issue.


Probably a lot of your circle of women are ugly ASF or maybe trannies are your type.
They not my type. Just like women they gotta be super plastic for me to be turned on. But women turn me on even if they ugly apparently. :/

Is that a tranny in that video tho? She’s cute
Edit: nvm, her body is too big and her Tits too small
 
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Late night ramblings:

so right now I’m getting that “vacuum” feeling I’ve had before where it feels like all my options are gone and I’ll never get a girl again.

this happens quite a bit and no matter how many plates or potential plates I get it seems they all go silent at the same time whether I’ve been in contact with them or not.

it’s like reality is in a loop and each time it resets there is a vacuum before the next bout.

I dunno it’s just odd how it happens. What’s also odd is how when things are clicking I can be needy and even retarded but girls dig it but when the stars aren’t aligned, retarded or smooth it all goes down in flames.

there must be more to this but I do not know what. Ima go to sleep
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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