"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Back on the prowl after 14 month monogamy. Seeking the missing keys

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Well, I don't doubt you've got some social cred and stuff... maybe this is a western broad thing but free lunches will always cost you something in the end.
I mean I’ve worried about that myself but so far I’m ok. Should definitely get tested after two weeks here tho.

mad for the free lunches, it’s just my vibe and form of game. I genuinely do not care if I get laid with these girls or not so I have that edge.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I mean I’ve worried about that myself but so far I’m ok. Should definitely get tested after two weeks here tho.

mad for the free lunches, it’s just my vibe and form of game. I genuinely do not care if I get laid with these girls or not so I have that edge.
I understand that man, but usually when a girl is tossing ***** out, theres a reason behind it. Chicks with any class don't just offer themselves up on a platter. That would be a major red flag for me. I mean you gotta look out for your own health, herpes, aids and hep c are forever. Condoms aren't forcefields, you've gotta be choosey.
 

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I understand that man, but usually when a girl is tossing ***** out, theres a reason behind it. Chicks with any class don't just offer themselves up on a platter. That would be a major red flag for me.
I think you may have some limiting beliefs there. I been with nothing but these types of girls. So far so good.
 

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Out of curiousity, how dangerous would you rate your job?
I’m unemployed. Although I used to do door to door lead generation. And before that I was a home framer.
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Maybe because you don't care and have the edge, you are projecting yourself as a man of value, and the females can't help but drop their panties.... Not because they're all infected slvts. Others on here espouse first date lays as a normal thing. I wouldn't be too worried.
Yes I agree. I’ve been a risk taker in my life. That definitely helps
 

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****, currently talking with a cute 22 y.o. Who wants me to use and abuse her as she figures out what she’s looking for with regards to dating. She said she’d pay for the hotel room whenever we meet. Damn.
 

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Went to another girl's house tonight. This time when I realized she was a fatty I just accepted it. No boner and I was out of there in 15 mins. I don't believe in being mean to girls unless it's a kink so I chatted with her a bit. Didn't even tell her I wasn't feeling it. Just said I was tired and we'd have to reschedule.

It feels good having higher standards. Tho I do feel like I'm in limbo now. Can't get hard with the fit girls, can't get hard with the fatties. Maybe I just haven't found my "type" yet. I dunno.

I think it'll just take time. Over time I will see I can get fit girls and I'll ease into it without the anxiety that kills boners.

At least, that's my hope.


One thing is for sure tho: from now on, definitely, ALWAYS gonna be meeting the girls beforehand for a "date" to see if I like them before pitching sex. It'll show I have options which will increase attraction too.
 

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Can't get hard with the fit girls, can't get hard with the fatties. Maybe I just haven't found my "type" yet. I dunno.
It sounds to me that you are tying to force it before you become comfortable with a girl. I think taking more time in your case before sex happens might improve the quality of sex. Part of that comfort will be finding someone that you're compatible with and not just someone with a hole you can stick it in. My $.02
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It sounds to me that you are tying to force it before you become comfortable with a girl. I think taking more time in your case before sex happens might improve the quality of sex. Part of that comfort will be finding someone that you're compatible with and not just someone with a hole you can stick it in. My $.02
Oh for sure. Unfortunately this is is exactly what I did in my early life and what contributed to my celibacy.
 

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Don't sweat it, I do this too all my friends and EVERYONE falls for it. :D

One of my friends was almost frothing at the mouth, he watched it a couple times on the big screen, couldn't understand why my wife and I were ROFL.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Don't sweat it, I do this too all my friends and EVERYONE falls for it. :D

One of my friends was almost frothing at the mouth, he watched it a couple times on the big screen, couldn't understand why my wife and I were ROFL.
I don’t mind trannies tbh. But they often have weird personalities.
 

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I don’t mind trannies tbh. But they often have weird personalities.
Well... I think I may have found your issue.


Probably a lot of your circle of women are ugly ASF or maybe trannies are your type.
 

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Well... I think I may have found your issue.


Probably a lot of your circle of women are ugly ASF or maybe trannies are your type.
They not my type. Just like women they gotta be super plastic for me to be turned on. But women turn me on even if they ugly apparently. :/

Is that a tranny in that video tho? She’s cute
Edit: nvm, her body is too big and her Tits too small
 
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Late night ramblings:

so right now I’m getting that “vacuum” feeling I’ve had before where it feels like all my options are gone and I’ll never get a girl again.

this happens quite a bit and no matter how many plates or potential plates I get it seems they all go silent at the same time whether I’ve been in contact with them or not.

it’s like reality is in a loop and each time it resets there is a vacuum before the next bout.

I dunno it’s just odd how it happens. What’s also odd is how when things are clicking I can be needy and even retarded but girls dig it but when the stars aren’t aligned, retarded or smooth it all goes down in flames.

there must be more to this but I do not know what. Ima go to sleep
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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