You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
For me it doesn't feel like "much". The calories is around 2200. But if shakes are helping you that's great. One of the gentlemen posted an organic highly absorbing shake product. The price was not much more than traditional shakes.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Nice. Yeah I need about 3200 calories a day to gain weight. My metabolism is ridiculous
"This is all in your mind. Food cannot increase or decrease T that quickly. Over time, yes. Immediately, no.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
My erections beg to differ. If I eat certain things or not I will have quality erections or not.
T levels typically have little bearing on erections. It usually is linked to the balance of estrogen and progesterone.
Hey man, that's all that counts. Regardless of science, if what you're doing is helping you out, keep doing it.
Ah so the foods I eat that limit estrogen production might be doing it
Possible...
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Well don’t hold back if you have a better theory
Embarrassing really. Girl turned out to be a whale and I parked my boat twice. Then at 2:30am in the morning she got out of bed to go to the patio door and let some guy in who proceeded to **** her face. I interrupted them so I could grab my strewn clothes and the guy was super embarrassed.
Only if she passes the boner test. Otherwise, might as well not waste the time.
This is what I was doing. I don’t know if you ever watched the videos from that old pick up site “Good Looking Loser”. But his whole thing was “don’t be the virgin that only dates 10’s”.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Oh she was a nympho. Which makes it worse tbh
What do you mean?
Well, I don't doubt you've got some social cred and stuff... maybe this is a western broad thing but free lunches will always cost you something in the end.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.