"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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AriMamba

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Lately I been going out this long dates. Quite frankly I don’t ever know when to end it. How long do you guys usually last?

I usually just hang out then grab something to eat. Is the date supposed to be over? I usually just keep it going untill it gets late. I feel though that this is bad and the girl might think I am giving her too much attention.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Duke

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It really depends on the chemistry and how active the date is. You want to end your dates on a high note. I've gone out on tons of dates and there is no hard and fast rule I stick to. I've had 1.5hr dates and 6hr dates that were all great.

You need to experiment and see what works for you and your personality and the types of girls you attract. Part of being successful with women is having a sense of awareness. Women are not some black/white mathematical equation where you plug a number into a spreadsheet and it spits out an answer.
 
IKO69

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Yeah, don't go in worrying about length of time & pick some fun activity for the data. Something hands on you both can do - last date I had we went to this new bowling alley that opened up in this hot section of the city. At certain points I helped her with her form (aka I would touch her and ****). You use your surroundings to your advantage.
 
resilient

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Agree on ending with a high note. If its start to drag on, say you have to get back to doing xyz. If she liked you enough on the date, she'll want more of your time and hit you up.
 
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