"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Average date length?

AriMamba

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Lately I been going out this long dates. Quite frankly I don’t ever know when to end it. How long do you guys usually last?

I usually just hang out then grab something to eat. Is the date supposed to be over? I usually just keep it going untill it gets late. I feel though that this is bad and the girl might think I am giving her too much attention.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Duke

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It really depends on the chemistry and how active the date is. You want to end your dates on a high note. I've gone out on tons of dates and there is no hard and fast rule I stick to. I've had 1.5hr dates and 6hr dates that were all great.

You need to experiment and see what works for you and your personality and the types of girls you attract. Part of being successful with women is having a sense of awareness. Women are not some black/white mathematical equation where you plug a number into a spreadsheet and it spits out an answer.
 

IKO69

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Yeah, don't go in worrying about length of time & pick some fun activity for the data. Something hands on you both can do - last date I had we went to this new bowling alley that opened up in this hot section of the city. At certain points I helped her with her form (aka I would touch her and ****). You use your surroundings to your advantage.
 

resilient

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Agree on ending with a high note. If its start to drag on, say you have to get back to doing xyz. If she liked you enough on the date, she'll want more of your time and hit you up.
 
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