That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I would have chosen a different picture because these look like underage schoolgirls to me.I would say they are subtle. Of these 3 High School girls, the far left is a 6/10 = a bit above average, the other two are 5's/average looking girls. The 6 has longer hair, more feminine face and nicer eyes, better skull shape, slightly prettier.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
It would not surprise me if he had some AI assist program that spits out all the key metrics like goinal angle, etc. His rating has a worksheet, and I would imagine that he gets the general score based on metrics, and then does a final lookover to see if that score needs to be adjusted.
At age 15, I would have been all over the gal on the right.I would say they are subtle. Of these 3 High School girls, the far left is a 6/10 = a bit above average, the other two are 5's/average looking girls. The 6 has longer hair, more feminine face and nicer eyes, better skull shape, slightly prettier.
She looks a bit like she could grow up into a Margaret Thatcher. You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Wheat Waffles (Sam) says that a "5" is a healthy weight, average face person. I agree with this and have always used it as my own guide going back to the late 1990's. Using National Weight Statistics to define average is silly because the average USA woman is 172lbs @ 5ft4, average American man is 5ft9 @ 199lbs. They will look below average at that weight. Both need to drop 30lbs, if not the woman 45lbs to 50lbs.
does he have a video somewhere showing faces & bodies going in attractiveness up the scale from 5-10?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She's the kind of girl who would be beautiful if she was straight up happy. I love the energy from her. I'll bet she would be great if she was doing something fun, or accomplished something big.
