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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Are the differences between a female 5/10 & 6/10 subtle to you, or quite large jump in attractiveness?

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I would say they are subtle. Of these 3 High School girls, the far left is a 6/10 = a bit above average, the other two are 5's/average looking girls. The 6 has longer hair, more feminine face and nicer eyes, better skull shape, slightly prettier.

 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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Yknow. I really do wonder about this rating system business. I can’t really fathom how guys differentiate between one point ,say 5 and the next 6 on a 1-10 scale.
Plus there is so much variation in taste - the rating is gonna be subjectively biased. by the eye of the beholder.
Only a computer could give an ‘accurate’ ,objective 1-10 rating -based on facial ratio measurements and body proportions etc

Btw I see WheatWaffles charges to rate looks as a service. Does he use his own proprietary software or some sh1t.. or just his opinion..?
How does he do that…
 

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The way I rate a 6 is cute. A 5 is a girl I might think about, but when it comes right down to it, I'll be "Nah". 1-4s are out of the question. So only 6 and above are doable.

Everyone rates a little differently, I guess.
 

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I would say they are subtle. Of these 3 High School girls, the far left is a 6/10 = a bit above average, the other two are 5's/average looking girls. The 6 has longer hair, more feminine face and nicer eyes, better skull shape, slightly prettier.

I would have chosen a different picture because these look like underage schoolgirls to me.
 

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You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I don't really use the numerical grading scheme, it's a bit daft really...but...if I had to...

I would say a 6 is where strong interest can be likely if she is particularly your type. A 5 is where you'd still be 50/50 even if she was your type.
 

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All three chicks need to chill out with the tweezers.
I understand they're trying look their best, but they hardly have any hair left in their eyebrows.
 

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Yknow. I really do wonder about this rating system business. I can’t really fathom how guys differentiate between one point ,say 5 and the next 6 on a 1-10 scale.
Plus there is so much variation in taste - the rating is gonna be subjectively biased. by the eye of the beholder.
Only a computer could give an ‘accurate’ ,objective 1-10 rating -based on facial ratio measurements and body proportions etc

Btw I see WheatWaffles charges to rate looks as a service. Does he use his own proprietary software or some sh1t.. or just his opinion..?
How does he do that…
It would not surprise me if he had some AI assist program that spits out all the key metrics like goinal angle, etc. His rating has a worksheet, and I would imagine that he gets the general score based on metrics, and then does a final lookover to see if that score needs to be adjusted.
 

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I would say they are subtle. Of these 3 High School girls, the far left is a 6/10 = a bit above average, the other two are 5's/average looking girls. The 6 has longer hair, more feminine face and nicer eyes, better skull shape, slightly prettier.

At age 15, I would have been all over the gal on the right. :eek::eek::eek: She looks a bit like she could grow up into a Margaret Thatcher. o_Oo_O
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It would not surprise me if he had some AI assist program that spits out all the key metrics like goinal angle, etc. His rating has a worksheet, and I would imagine that he gets the general score based on metrics, and then does a final lookover to see if that score needs to be adjusted.
Wheat Waffles (Sam) says that a "5" is a healthy weight, average face person. I agree with this and have always used it as my own guide going back to the late 1990's. Using National Weight Statistics to define average is silly because the average USA woman is 172lbs @ 5ft4, average American man is 5ft9 @ 199lbs. They will look below average at that weight. Both need to drop 30lbs, if not the woman 45lbs to 50lbs.

I'd say the average american and brit at those weights (172lbs & 5ft4 for women, 199lbs & 5ft9 men) is a 3/10 to 3.5/10 s they are close to obese. Being very generous a 4/10.

Overweight Unattractive people aren't 5's basically, even though fat has become the new normal doesn't mean the needle for aesthetics moves with the National Average Weight increasing in poundage each generation. My **** doesn't change based on statistics.

For example, the 'average' weight of a Bangladesh woman is 122lbs at 5ft1>5ft2, similar in Japan, but that doesn't mean she's an automatic 6 or 7. For further example, imagine if 100% of men were 4ft4 Hunchbacks Of Notre Damn... all twisted n' ugly, does that mean the one with the best haircut becomes the 10/10? No, he's still **** ugly and women wouldn't go near him. Likewise, If you move to say a small island and all the women are ugly whales, does the one with best hair and nails become the 10/10? No, she's still fat and ugly.
 

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If she's fat, she's already very low for me, and I don't care much for the number scale. Being skinny puts her in average at minimum, unless she has down syndrome. But us men are far more tolerable than women when it comes to looks. We can forgive a lot of things for pvssy. Women are superficial and like competing with each other in everything, including the looks of their husbands. Now granted, women who fall for a guy will become more tolerable of his flaws, but that can easily go away when she starts to hate him.

So yeah, it really doesn't matter to men. Plus, I like variety. I can **** an average woman one day, and a hot one another, and during a drunk night, I just want to bang some easier pvssy, so will turn off the lights on an ugly mutherfocka.
 

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Wheat Waffles (Sam) says that a "5" is a healthy weight, average face person. I agree with this and have always used it as my own guide going back to the late 1990's. Using National Weight Statistics to define average is silly because the average USA woman is 172lbs @ 5ft4, average American man is 5ft9 @ 199lbs. They will look below average at that weight. Both need to drop 30lbs, if not the woman 45lbs to 50lbs.

I'd say the average american and brit at those weights (172lbs & 5ft4 for women, 199lbs & 5ft9 men) is a 3/10 to 3.5/10 s they are close to obese. Being very generous a 4/10.

Overweight Unattractive people aren't 5's basically, even though fat has become the new normal doesn't mean the needle for aesthetics moves with the National Average Weight increasing in poundage each generation. My **** doesn't change based on statistics.

For example, the 'average' weight of a Bangladesh woman is 122lbs at 5ft1>5ft2, similar in Japan, but that doesn't mean she's an automatic 6 or 7. For further example, imagine if 100% of men were 4ft4 Hunchbacks Of Notre Damn... all twisted n' ugly, does that mean the one with the best haircut becomes the 10/10? No, he's still **** ugly and women wouldn't go near him. Likewise, If you move to say a small island and all the women are ugly whales, does the one with best hair and nails become the 10/10? No, she's still fat and ugly.
does he have a video somewhere showing faces & bodies going in attractiveness up the scale from 5-10?

Also remember… Sam is just one guy.

re the last point of the island.
Attractiveness is relative and tied to constraints of access. If you were confined to a limited environment,( like say just within your neighbourhood or small town), then the best looking girl in town… is the 10 no?

If she isn’t equal in looks to Bella Hadid (or whoever is global 10 /10 )… it doesn’t matter.
the scale readjusts ? Due to constraints.
 
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Lollll

All three are at least 7 in the real world my brother. Maybe even 8 or 9 on a good day.

Blonde, slim, young and fresh. If these three girls go out they can literally go without any cash on them and by the end of the night go home hammered, by taxi ,all paid in full by many men...

But more importantly; I HIGHLY doubt you'd pull anyone of them and even if you'd pull KEEP them submissive and happy! If so id like yo see some proof...

Cmon now..
 
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