"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Are the differences between a female 5/10 & 6/10 subtle to you, or quite large jump in attractiveness?

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I would say they are subtle. Of these 3 High School girls, the far left is a 6/10 = a bit above average, the other two are 5's/average looking girls. The 6 has longer hair, more feminine face and nicer eyes, better skull shape, slightly prettier.

 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Cheeky_James

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Yknow. I really do wonder about this rating system business. I can’t really fathom how guys differentiate between one point ,say 5 and the next 6 on a 1-10 scale.
Plus there is so much variation in taste - the rating is gonna be subjectively biased. by the eye of the beholder.
Only a computer could give an ‘accurate’ ,objective 1-10 rating -based on facial ratio measurements and body proportions etc

Btw I see WheatWaffles charges to rate looks as a service. Does he use his own proprietary software or some sh1t.. or just his opinion..?
How does he do that…
 

zekko

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The way I rate a 6 is cute. A 5 is a girl I might think about, but when it comes right down to it, I'll be "Nah". 1-4s are out of the question. So only 6 and above are doable.

Everyone rates a little differently, I guess.
 

Westminster

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I would say they are subtle. Of these 3 High School girls, the far left is a 6/10 = a bit above average, the other two are 5's/average looking girls. The 6 has longer hair, more feminine face and nicer eyes, better skull shape, slightly prettier.

I would have chosen a different picture because these look like underage schoolgirls to me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I don't really use the numerical grading scheme, it's a bit daft really...but...if I had to...

I would say a 6 is where strong interest can be likely if she is particularly your type. A 5 is where you'd still be 50/50 even if she was your type.
 

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All three chicks need to chill out with the tweezers.
I understand they're trying look their best, but they hardly have any hair left in their eyebrows.
 
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