Doe Boii
Don Juan
how do u get with a female u already talk to
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
approaching girl
- Thread starter Doe Boii
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Silkandsteel
Don Juan
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How long have you known her for?
Doe Boii
Don Juan
well i saw her at this party once but we didn't really talk (i wasn't interested then i had a girl with me) but now i know her vaguely like i say how are you doin and she says fine...i've only talked w/ her one on one once a couple weeks back.
Doe Boii
Don Juan
any more advice?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Doe Boii
Don Juan
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Doe Boii
Don Juan
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alansp
New Member
First, you have to show you perceived her. Talk about that party you know her, say something like that:
"Hey, i remember you that party, in first impression i look you could be a nice girl but, but that day i was with another girl (you said) and i have no oportunity to know you better, you look an interesting girl maybe you really do.
Now, I am late for ... , maybe onde day we wil meet us again."
I'm shure next time she see you, she will come talk to you, then talk to her normally.
Then, you can try kiss her (if you see she is interested). "Now i see i am not wrong you are really a nice or good girl." ****
It's just an idea, it's how i do. Try to adapt this on your way.
I hope have helped you.
Good Aproche!!!
"Hey, i remember you that party, in first impression i look you could be a nice girl but, but that day i was with another girl (you said) and i have no oportunity to know you better, you look an interesting girl maybe you really do.
Now, I am late for ... , maybe onde day we wil meet us again."
I'm shure next time she see you, she will come talk to you, then talk to her normally.
Then, you can try kiss her (if you see she is interested). "Now i see i am not wrong you are really a nice or good girl." ****
It's just an idea, it's how i do. Try to adapt this on your way.
I hope have helped you.
Good Aproche!!!
April_Infinite
Don Juan
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Are you close friends with her?
Doe Boii
Don Juan
not really close but now we are starting to talk alot more...i guess im just lacking a little in the confidence department. i only talk to her when i say hey to her in the hallway, and when she play slaps me (isn't this a sign they're interested, hitting means they like you?) So how can i boost up my confidence around women.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
read thesebuilding confidence
over come shyness
Overcome fear of rejection
How to show confidence even if you don't have it
i know there are plenty of more articles about confidence how to boost yourself and all that but here just a few i picked out i think might help if they dont then post back let me know
over come shyness
Overcome fear of rejection
How to show confidence even if you don't have it
i know there are plenty of more articles about confidence how to boost yourself and all that but here just a few i picked out i think might help if they dont then post back let me know
alansp's tips sound productive but you need abit of ****yness:
Hey, i rember seeing you at xxx party. because you were to shy to talk to a handsome chunk like me(****y smile) i will do it for you.
This is just an idea.
Hey, i rember seeing you at xxx party. because you were to shy to talk to a handsome chunk like me(****y smile) i will do it for you.
This is just an idea.
Doe Boii
Don Juan
I like this advice it goes with the personality i have ...confident but joke around alot.Lompa said:alansp's tips sound productive but you need abit of ****yness:
Hey, i rember seeing you at xxx party. because you were to shy to talk to a handsome chunk like me(****y smile) i will do it for you.
This is just an idea.
Doe Boii
Don Juan
is hitting good...cuz in the last few days i've started talkin with her more and she likes to play slap me on my face and say im her "slap buddy". i heard somewhere that hittin means a girl likes you. is this true or what does this mean?
''Slap Buddy'' ?? Sir please, hand over your testicles right nowis hitting good...cuz in the last few days i've started talkin with her more and she likes to play slap me on my face and say im her "slap buddy". i heard somewhere that hittin means a girl likes you. is this true or what does this mean?
-Cod3r
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Doe Boii
Don Juan
nah she aint slappin the sh*t outta me or somethin just light little taps...i dont let nobody slap me hard
Doe Boii
Don Juan
and advice only not lame wack little replies and stupid commentsCod3r said:''Slap Buddy'' ?? Sir please, hand over your testicles right now
-Cod3r
Doe Boii
Don Juan
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Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
You like to bump huh?
go to the main site...
SoSuave
Skim through the articles. There are tons of things about turning friends into girl friends, escaping the "friend zone" etc. EVERY DJ principle can be aimed towards ANY girl, no matter how familiar you two are. Theres no specific "You already know her, do this" technique. It's the same with every girl. You must adapt to yourself, and then apply your "techniques" to her, adjusting and using different "weapons" based on how she reacts. You need to learn to judge and react instantaneously.
go to the main site...
SoSuave
Skim through the articles. There are tons of things about turning friends into girl friends, escaping the "friend zone" etc. EVERY DJ principle can be aimed towards ANY girl, no matter how familiar you two are. Theres no specific "You already know her, do this" technique. It's the same with every girl. You must adapt to yourself, and then apply your "techniques" to her, adjusting and using different "weapons" based on how she reacts. You need to learn to judge and react instantaneously.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.