Doe Boii
Don Juan
how do u get with a female u already talk to
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
approaching girl
- Thread starter Doe Boii
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Silkandsteel
Don Juan
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How long have you known her for?
Doe Boii
Don Juan
well i saw her at this party once but we didn't really talk (i wasn't interested then i had a girl with me) but now i know her vaguely like i say how are you doin and she says fine...i've only talked w/ her one on one once a couple weeks back.
Doe Boii
Don Juan
any more advice?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Doe Boii
Don Juan
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Doe Boii
Don Juan
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alansp
New Member
First, you have to show you perceived her. Talk about that party you know her, say something like that:
"Hey, i remember you that party, in first impression i look you could be a nice girl but, but that day i was with another girl (you said) and i have no oportunity to know you better, you look an interesting girl maybe you really do.
Now, I am late for ... , maybe onde day we wil meet us again."
I'm shure next time she see you, she will come talk to you, then talk to her normally.
Then, you can try kiss her (if you see she is interested). "Now i see i am not wrong you are really a nice or good girl." ****
It's just an idea, it's how i do. Try to adapt this on your way.
I hope have helped you.
Good Aproche!!!
"Hey, i remember you that party, in first impression i look you could be a nice girl but, but that day i was with another girl (you said) and i have no oportunity to know you better, you look an interesting girl maybe you really do.
Now, I am late for ... , maybe onde day we wil meet us again."
I'm shure next time she see you, she will come talk to you, then talk to her normally.
Then, you can try kiss her (if you see she is interested). "Now i see i am not wrong you are really a nice or good girl." ****
It's just an idea, it's how i do. Try to adapt this on your way.
I hope have helped you.
Good Aproche!!!
April_Infinite
Don Juan
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Are you close friends with her?
Doe Boii
Don Juan
not really close but now we are starting to talk alot more...i guess im just lacking a little in the confidence department. i only talk to her when i say hey to her in the hallway, and when she play slaps me (isn't this a sign they're interested, hitting means they like you?) So how can i boost up my confidence around women.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
read thesebuilding confidence
over come shyness
Overcome fear of rejection
How to show confidence even if you don't have it
i know there are plenty of more articles about confidence how to boost yourself and all that but here just a few i picked out i think might help if they dont then post back let me know
over come shyness
Overcome fear of rejection
How to show confidence even if you don't have it
i know there are plenty of more articles about confidence how to boost yourself and all that but here just a few i picked out i think might help if they dont then post back let me know
alansp's tips sound productive but you need abit of ****yness:
Hey, i rember seeing you at xxx party. because you were to shy to talk to a handsome chunk like me(****y smile) i will do it for you.
This is just an idea.
Hey, i rember seeing you at xxx party. because you were to shy to talk to a handsome chunk like me(****y smile) i will do it for you.
This is just an idea.
Doe Boii
Don Juan
I like this advice it goes with the personality i have ...confident but joke around alot.Lompa said:alansp's tips sound productive but you need abit of ****yness:
Hey, i rember seeing you at xxx party. because you were to shy to talk to a handsome chunk like me(****y smile) i will do it for you.
This is just an idea.
Doe Boii
Don Juan
is hitting good...cuz in the last few days i've started talkin with her more and she likes to play slap me on my face and say im her "slap buddy". i heard somewhere that hittin means a girl likes you. is this true or what does this mean?
''Slap Buddy'' ?? Sir please, hand over your testicles right nowis hitting good...cuz in the last few days i've started talkin with her more and she likes to play slap me on my face and say im her "slap buddy". i heard somewhere that hittin means a girl likes you. is this true or what does this mean?
-Cod3r
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Doe Boii
Don Juan
nah she aint slappin the sh*t outta me or somethin just light little taps...i dont let nobody slap me hard
Doe Boii
Don Juan
and advice only not lame wack little replies and stupid commentsCod3r said:''Slap Buddy'' ?? Sir please, hand over your testicles right now
-Cod3r
Doe Boii
Don Juan
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Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
You like to bump huh?
go to the main site...
SoSuave
Skim through the articles. There are tons of things about turning friends into girl friends, escaping the "friend zone" etc. EVERY DJ principle can be aimed towards ANY girl, no matter how familiar you two are. Theres no specific "You already know her, do this" technique. It's the same with every girl. You must adapt to yourself, and then apply your "techniques" to her, adjusting and using different "weapons" based on how she reacts. You need to learn to judge and react instantaneously.
go to the main site...
SoSuave
Skim through the articles. There are tons of things about turning friends into girl friends, escaping the "friend zone" etc. EVERY DJ principle can be aimed towards ANY girl, no matter how familiar you two are. Theres no specific "You already know her, do this" technique. It's the same with every girl. You must adapt to yourself, and then apply your "techniques" to her, adjusting and using different "weapons" based on how she reacts. You need to learn to judge and react instantaneously.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.