Doe Boii
Don Juan
how do u get with a female u already talk to
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
approaching girl
- Thread starter Doe Boii
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Silkandsteel
Don Juan
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How long have you known her for?
Doe Boii
Don Juan
well i saw her at this party once but we didn't really talk (i wasn't interested then i had a girl with me) but now i know her vaguely like i say how are you doin and she says fine...i've only talked w/ her one on one once a couple weeks back.
Doe Boii
Don Juan
any more advice?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Doe Boii
Don Juan
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Doe Boii
Don Juan
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alansp
New Member
First, you have to show you perceived her. Talk about that party you know her, say something like that:
"Hey, i remember you that party, in first impression i look you could be a nice girl but, but that day i was with another girl (you said) and i have no oportunity to know you better, you look an interesting girl maybe you really do.
Now, I am late for ... , maybe onde day we wil meet us again."
I'm shure next time she see you, she will come talk to you, then talk to her normally.
Then, you can try kiss her (if you see she is interested). "Now i see i am not wrong you are really a nice or good girl." ****
It's just an idea, it's how i do. Try to adapt this on your way.
I hope have helped you.
Good Aproche!!!
"Hey, i remember you that party, in first impression i look you could be a nice girl but, but that day i was with another girl (you said) and i have no oportunity to know you better, you look an interesting girl maybe you really do.
Now, I am late for ... , maybe onde day we wil meet us again."
I'm shure next time she see you, she will come talk to you, then talk to her normally.
Then, you can try kiss her (if you see she is interested). "Now i see i am not wrong you are really a nice or good girl." ****
It's just an idea, it's how i do. Try to adapt this on your way.
I hope have helped you.
Good Aproche!!!
April_Infinite
Don Juan
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Are you close friends with her?
Doe Boii
Don Juan
not really close but now we are starting to talk alot more...i guess im just lacking a little in the confidence department. i only talk to her when i say hey to her in the hallway, and when she play slaps me (isn't this a sign they're interested, hitting means they like you?) So how can i boost up my confidence around women.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
read thesebuilding confidence
over come shyness
Overcome fear of rejection
How to show confidence even if you don't have it
i know there are plenty of more articles about confidence how to boost yourself and all that but here just a few i picked out i think might help if they dont then post back let me know
over come shyness
Overcome fear of rejection
How to show confidence even if you don't have it
i know there are plenty of more articles about confidence how to boost yourself and all that but here just a few i picked out i think might help if they dont then post back let me know
alansp's tips sound productive but you need abit of ****yness:
Hey, i rember seeing you at xxx party. because you were to shy to talk to a handsome chunk like me(****y smile) i will do it for you.
This is just an idea.
Hey, i rember seeing you at xxx party. because you were to shy to talk to a handsome chunk like me(****y smile) i will do it for you.
This is just an idea.
Doe Boii
Don Juan
I like this advice it goes with the personality i have ...confident but joke around alot.Lompa said:alansp's tips sound productive but you need abit of ****yness:
Hey, i rember seeing you at xxx party. because you were to shy to talk to a handsome chunk like me(****y smile) i will do it for you.
This is just an idea.
Doe Boii
Don Juan
is hitting good...cuz in the last few days i've started talkin with her more and she likes to play slap me on my face and say im her "slap buddy". i heard somewhere that hittin means a girl likes you. is this true or what does this mean?
''Slap Buddy'' ?? Sir please, hand over your testicles right nowis hitting good...cuz in the last few days i've started talkin with her more and she likes to play slap me on my face and say im her "slap buddy". i heard somewhere that hittin means a girl likes you. is this true or what does this mean?
-Cod3r
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Doe Boii
Don Juan
nah she aint slappin the sh*t outta me or somethin just light little taps...i dont let nobody slap me hard
Doe Boii
Don Juan
and advice only not lame wack little replies and stupid commentsCod3r said:''Slap Buddy'' ?? Sir please, hand over your testicles right now
-Cod3r
Doe Boii
Don Juan
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Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
You like to bump huh?
go to the main site...
SoSuave
Skim through the articles. There are tons of things about turning friends into girl friends, escaping the "friend zone" etc. EVERY DJ principle can be aimed towards ANY girl, no matter how familiar you two are. Theres no specific "You already know her, do this" technique. It's the same with every girl. You must adapt to yourself, and then apply your "techniques" to her, adjusting and using different "weapons" based on how she reacts. You need to learn to judge and react instantaneously.
go to the main site...
SoSuave
Skim through the articles. There are tons of things about turning friends into girl friends, escaping the "friend zone" etc. EVERY DJ principle can be aimed towards ANY girl, no matter how familiar you two are. Theres no specific "You already know her, do this" technique. It's the same with every girl. You must adapt to yourself, and then apply your "techniques" to her, adjusting and using different "weapons" based on how she reacts. You need to learn to judge and react instantaneously.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.