Doe Boii
Don Juan
how do u get with a female u already talk to
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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- Thread starter Doe Boii
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Silkandsteel
Don Juan
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How long have you known her for?
Doe Boii
Don Juan
well i saw her at this party once but we didn't really talk (i wasn't interested then i had a girl with me) but now i know her vaguely like i say how are you doin and she says fine...i've only talked w/ her one on one once a couple weeks back.
Doe Boii
Don Juan
any more advice?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Doe Boii
Don Juan
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Doe Boii
Don Juan
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alansp
New Member
First, you have to show you perceived her. Talk about that party you know her, say something like that:
"Hey, i remember you that party, in first impression i look you could be a nice girl but, but that day i was with another girl (you said) and i have no oportunity to know you better, you look an interesting girl maybe you really do.
Now, I am late for ... , maybe onde day we wil meet us again."
I'm shure next time she see you, she will come talk to you, then talk to her normally.
Then, you can try kiss her (if you see she is interested). "Now i see i am not wrong you are really a nice or good girl." ****
It's just an idea, it's how i do. Try to adapt this on your way.
I hope have helped you.
Good Aproche!!!
"Hey, i remember you that party, in first impression i look you could be a nice girl but, but that day i was with another girl (you said) and i have no oportunity to know you better, you look an interesting girl maybe you really do.
Now, I am late for ... , maybe onde day we wil meet us again."
I'm shure next time she see you, she will come talk to you, then talk to her normally.
Then, you can try kiss her (if you see she is interested). "Now i see i am not wrong you are really a nice or good girl." ****
It's just an idea, it's how i do. Try to adapt this on your way.
I hope have helped you.
Good Aproche!!!
April_Infinite
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Are you close friends with her?
Doe Boii
Don Juan
not really close but now we are starting to talk alot more...i guess im just lacking a little in the confidence department. i only talk to her when i say hey to her in the hallway, and when she play slaps me (isn't this a sign they're interested, hitting means they like you?) So how can i boost up my confidence around women.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
read thesebuilding confidence
over come shyness
Overcome fear of rejection
How to show confidence even if you don't have it
i know there are plenty of more articles about confidence how to boost yourself and all that but here just a few i picked out i think might help if they dont then post back let me know
over come shyness
Overcome fear of rejection
How to show confidence even if you don't have it
i know there are plenty of more articles about confidence how to boost yourself and all that but here just a few i picked out i think might help if they dont then post back let me know
alansp's tips sound productive but you need abit of ****yness:
Hey, i rember seeing you at xxx party. because you were to shy to talk to a handsome chunk like me(****y smile) i will do it for you.
This is just an idea.
Hey, i rember seeing you at xxx party. because you were to shy to talk to a handsome chunk like me(****y smile) i will do it for you.
This is just an idea.
Doe Boii
Don Juan
I like this advice it goes with the personality i have ...confident but joke around alot.Lompa said:alansp's tips sound productive but you need abit of ****yness:
Hey, i rember seeing you at xxx party. because you were to shy to talk to a handsome chunk like me(****y smile) i will do it for you.
This is just an idea.
Doe Boii
Don Juan
is hitting good...cuz in the last few days i've started talkin with her more and she likes to play slap me on my face and say im her "slap buddy". i heard somewhere that hittin means a girl likes you. is this true or what does this mean?
''Slap Buddy'' ?? Sir please, hand over your testicles right nowis hitting good...cuz in the last few days i've started talkin with her more and she likes to play slap me on my face and say im her "slap buddy". i heard somewhere that hittin means a girl likes you. is this true or what does this mean?
-Cod3r
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Doe Boii
Don Juan
nah she aint slappin the sh*t outta me or somethin just light little taps...i dont let nobody slap me hard
Doe Boii
Don Juan
and advice only not lame wack little replies and stupid commentsCod3r said:''Slap Buddy'' ?? Sir please, hand over your testicles right now
-Cod3r
Doe Boii
Don Juan
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Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
You like to bump huh?
go to the main site...
SoSuave
Skim through the articles. There are tons of things about turning friends into girl friends, escaping the "friend zone" etc. EVERY DJ principle can be aimed towards ANY girl, no matter how familiar you two are. Theres no specific "You already know her, do this" technique. It's the same with every girl. You must adapt to yourself, and then apply your "techniques" to her, adjusting and using different "weapons" based on how she reacts. You need to learn to judge and react instantaneously.
go to the main site...
SoSuave
Skim through the articles. There are tons of things about turning friends into girl friends, escaping the "friend zone" etc. EVERY DJ principle can be aimed towards ANY girl, no matter how familiar you two are. Theres no specific "You already know her, do this" technique. It's the same with every girl. You must adapt to yourself, and then apply your "techniques" to her, adjusting and using different "weapons" based on how she reacts. You need to learn to judge and react instantaneously.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.